Never Say Never
When i joined campus, i said i would never date a campus girl. My mind set terms to only focus on studies and nothing more. The fact which i found that particular stage the most important of all since it would determine my career path after it disposed me, fueled me.
At last independence from theoretical approach towards the beginning of a practical mechanism was just a few years away.
So i totally immersed myself to studies and other productive, inspirational and educational projects.
Girls were out of boundary and dates were unnecessary because i found no great deal of importance towards my career path of professionalism.
Unfortunately i was taken aback with what i had principled. What i marked to be the ground that i would always stand on, made me stumble and fall. I don't know if its karma, or the universe, or fate, or cupid's arrogance and egoism for that matter, that propelled all the elements within humanity and that of the world to open right through me, and turn me upside down.
My story is quite simple. I met someone who glittered with sensational attraction as her beauty glistened vivaciously that it inspired me to reconsider my terms.
I don't believe in love at first sight, but trust me, there are people whom when you meet for the first time, you just see a whole new world being spawned around you. When you just lay eyes on that person, you just feel in a native world of infinite possibilities. You feel like you have found a new and remarkable purpose sanctioned by God himself.
Now that's how i felt, reborn, and most importantly, i found my purpose.
Long story cut short, i managed to date her and things are quite pretty amazing. I love her and she loves me too. That's perfect for me though not how i visioned when joining campus.
I know this is the most lame scenario to derive my advice and food for thought, however, i like drawing from what i have seen and experienced.
Never say never. Never say that come rain or sunshine, you will never do something pertaining what you really don't want to do.
Never say that you have put a huge full stop and limited your actions into not stepping on tabooed grounds.
Never say never to anything.
I wasn't shaken with what i had stipulated and drafted it to be like a constitution defining my limits. I made it clear that there were boundaries that i would never cross.
Both my principles and habitual modifications, were disowned and remodified.
The world is a strange place that you cannot define its rhythm. Its poetry is of unequal length, and its stories are those with no end-they always linger in empty pages as they seem to always erase and edit.
Though fate is not completely believed in, the universe and karma has a way of pulling strings, orchestrating, and make meaning to coincidence such that we become strangers of this world.
Never say never because the future is indeterminate, and even if you clearly have profound comprehension of the past, the future can still be rewritten.
© Roy Lennic