#breakupadvice

57 posts
  • oceanofemotions 43w

    Originally posted by : @pukethesea
    #breakupadvice #readwriteunite

    Yes, like most people who give amazing relationship advice, I have been single all my life ;) No, I am not (that) ugly I promise xD

    COMMENT below if you've ever dealt with a break up this way. Or if you think this advice is good enough. REPOST!

    @readwriteunite @writersnetwork @writersofmirakee @mirakee @mirakeeapp @numinous_writers @thebackstory @inkscapeco

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    Getting Over a Breakup

    1. TALK TO WHOM YOU BROKE UP WITH.
    This may seem silly, but it really helps. Tell that person about how you still feel about them. Talk about the best moments you both shared with each other. Tell how valuable you felt your time was with them and thank them for making you a part of their life. In the end, wish a hearty and truthful goodbye.

    2. GET YOURSELF SOME TIME.
    This does not mean you stop doing everything and watch sad, romantic movies while enjoying a tub of popcorn. No. Do the things you are supposed to do. Don't take time to "recover". It isn't a wound, it's a memory. Keep going, complete everything left undone, thanks to your heart's problems. Write, write more, read, read more, think, think nothing. Just do what you're meant to at that time and finish your work.

    3. STOP ACTING AWKWARD.
    Don't, repeat, don't take down your pictures from social media. Don't delete your texts. Don't use Drake lyrics as instagram captions. Don't talk shit about them now. Don't forget them, keep them as lessons. Just don't dramatise your life. If you see your now-ex, wave a hi, ask them how they are. Talk to them, say bye before you leave. Keep attending parties, keep going for movies. Don't pretend they don't exist. After all, they brought you some of your happiest smiles and best gifts. Don't believe that crap of 'oh we are exes, we can't be friends, ew'. That shit is dumb. Grow up, continue to talk to them when you have to. Simplify your own life.

    #pukethesea

  • ankush_ace 44w

    Breakup

    1- Remember she or he is not ur (EX) he/she is ur choice and first luv & be sure the last luv also.
    2- Never forgot her/him always luv her/him not to get her/him back in ur life ,to control ur self to fall in luv again with other.
    3-Never give advice to the person who is in relationship having less or same age of urs.. but help them becOz at that time he/she will not take ur advice in right way.

    ACe

  • cave_writing 44w

    Originally posted by : @avilon
    #breakupadvice
    This is a nice way of writing too

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    3 Steps to Learn From Writing

    1) Put a period where it needs to be.

    While break-ups can get messy,
    it is still a choice
    and a solution
    to end the problem.

    2) Put lots of space (and time).

    An empty space
    is not always bad.
    It allows chances
    and gives way for things that matter.

    3) Begin again

    because you deserve it.

  • chetnabisht 44w

    Don't let your brain recall memories of them,
    They went away that was there choice.

    Don't let your heart shed tears for them,
    They did wrong to you that was there false step.

    The only thing that you can do is
    Let them go, let them go and let them go.
    -chetna

  • readwriteunite 44w

    Originally posted by : @avilon
    #breakupadvice
    This is a nice way of writing too

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    3 Steps to Learn From Writing

    1) Put a period where it needs to be.

    While break-ups can get messy,
    it is still a choice
    and a solution
    to end the problem.

    2) Put lots of space (and time).

    An empty space
    is not always bad.
    It allows chances
    and gives way for things that matter.

    3) Begin again

    because you deserve it.

  • a_silentdream 44w

    I will curse that person from heart
    I will show m okay still
    I will talk with someone who understands

    ©a_silentdream

  • a_silentdream 44w

    I do
    Spend time with family
    Reimburse my hobbies
    Enjoy lone time


    ©a_silentdream

  • avilon 44w

    3 Steps to Learn From Writing

    1) Put a period where it needs to be.

    While break-ups can get messy,
    it is still a choice
    and a solution
    to end the problem.

    2) Put lots of space (and time).

    An empty space
    is not always bad.
    It allows chances
    and gives way for things that matter.

    3) Begin again

    because you deserve it.

  • pseudarshan 44w

    ��

    1. Breathe in
    2. Breathe out
    3. Forgive

  • blacksnow 44w

    Break up advice.

    1⃣ Accept & Analyze :
    Accept that it has happened. It's not the end of the world. It has happened to billions before and they have survived the pain. You are no less and so you too, will outlive this tragedy. Now you know that your break up is real since you have accepted it. Analyze what went wrong. If you were the one who wronged, learn from it and try not to do it ever again in the future. And if it was your partner who was the wrong one, well then you know that you did the right thing.
    2⃣ The Brighter Side of the Coin :
    Look towards the positive side and MOVE ON. Time never waits. Tbh, being loved is being caged. Now you are free and probably young. No strings attached. Do whatever you didn't, because you thought your partner wouldn't like it. Make most of your life and race ahead. Keep the lessons you learnt at the back of your head and advance further. Somewhere along you would meet somebody else who wouldn't do wrong by you or whom you won't wrong because you have those lessons in your head. Believe deeply that you are going to have a better life and not do anything stupid & let yourself rot.
    3⃣ Do not be an A°°hole :
    Most importantly, do not speak ill of your ex. Say whatsoever, they made you smile at some point and gave you beautiful memories. Be grateful that they visited, gave you some important lessons and made you somebody better and made you stronger than you were before. And moreover, when you speak ill of them and do other cheap things, you are only proving them right. So, move on peacefully and be self content and take control of your life now. Life has so much more to offer.

    And always remember what Joey said,
    " Grab a spoon fella. "


    ©blacksnow

  • writings_of_my_heart 44w

    Breakup advice

    1. Write something on mirakee(if u are a mirakeean) or listen to a song or anything that engages you
    2. Talk to someone who is quite close to you.
    3. Dont talk to the person (with whom u broke up) for many days
    ©writings_of_my_heart

  • budding_ap 44w

    I've gone a little overboard with word-limit, but seriously this is nothing. I could speak about it more!����
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    @readwriteunite #breakupadvice

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    1. Stay connected with each other, esp. through or into a friend circle, if the break-up was based on a mutual understanding between you two. The point of this is to move on from lovers to friends, and also if you ignore for no reason, because there was an understanding(why would you?), you could develop hard feelings for each other, and this ain't moving on, coz love or hate any sort of feeling left post break-up is still holding onto your past relationship. It will also help in case you are colleagues or class-mates. So remain as friends, but don't get close if you know the relationship isn't gonna work, maybe because of distance, or other commitments.

    2. If the break-up wasn't based on any sorta understanding, one of you decided to initiate then staying in touch wouldn't do anyone of you any good because one person always feels betrayed. Try to talk to clear your mind off of doubts in case you were 'dumped'. While talking make sure there is no screaming, if that happens back out. If you can't help feeling angry then that definitely is not the right time talk, don't talk. Explain in short that you can't.

    3. Above all keeping yourself busy is the best alternative. Find things that you loved beside your ex. People and friends that love you, try spending time with them and share if they're trustworthy. It could ease out some of your anger or pain. Even if you miss your ex, don't go through old photos or memories. It will make you miss the person more. Either delete them, keep it somewhere far from your reach, lock it in a folder and forget the password or something :P

    Apoorva
    ©budding_ap

  • zoeybird96 44w

    Breakup advice

    1) Listen to the music you haven't heard in a long time.
    2) Put on your best clothes and appreciate your looks. Confidence is key.
    3) Laugh! Watch stand up comedies and movies that'll make your heart feel lighter.

  • thezohashaikh 44w

    Love yourself.
    Eat ice-cream. Loads of it.
    Cry.
    Scream.
    Go out with friends.
    Wander.
    Read books.
    Listen to music. Happy ones.
    Dress up for yourself.
    Keep yourself busy.

  • inkdrops 44w

    Originally posted by : @pukethesea
    #breakupadvice #readwriteunite

    COMMENT below if you've ever dealt with a break up this way. Or if you think this advice is good enough.

    @readwriteunite @writersnetwork @writersofmirakee @mirakee @mirakeeapp @numinous_writers @thebackstory @inkscapeco

    Read More

    Getting Over a Breakup

    1. TALK TO WHOM YOU BROKE UP WITH.
    This may seem silly, but it really helps. Tell that person about how you still feel about them. Talk about the best moments you both shared with each other. Tell how valuable you felt your time was with them and thank them for making you a part of their life. In the end, wish a hearty and truthful goodbye.

    2. GET YOURSELF SOME TIME.
    This does not mean you stop doing everything and watch sad, romantic movies while enjoying a tub of popcorn. No. Do the things you are supposed to do. Don't take time to "recover". It isn't a wound, it's a memory. Keep going, complete everything left undone, thanks to your heart's problems. Write, write more, read, read more, think, think nothing. Just do what you're meant to at that time and finish your work.

    3. STOP ACTING AWKWARD.
    Don't, repeat, don't take down your pictures from social media. Don't delete your texts. Don't use Drake lyrics as instagram captions. Don't talk shit about them now. Don't forget them, keep them as lessons. Just don't dramatise your life. If you see your now-ex, wave a hi, ask them how they are. Talk to them, say bye before you leave. Keep attending parties, keep going for movies. Don't pretend they don't exist. After all, they brought you some of your happiest smiles and best gifts. Don't believe that crap of 'oh we are exes, we can't be friends, ew'. That shit is dumb. Grow up, continue to talk to them when you have to. Simplify your own life.

    #pukethesea

  • thebackstory 44w

    Originally posted by : @pukethesea
    #breakupadvice #readwriteunite

    COMMENT below if you've ever dealt with a break up this way. Or if you think this advice is good enough.

    @readwriteunite @writersnetwork @writersofmirakee @mirakee @mirakeeapp @numinous_writers @thebackstory @inkscapeco

    Read More

    Getting Over a Breakup

    1. TALK TO WHOM YOU BROKE UP WITH.
    This may seem silly, but it really helps. Tell that person about how you still feel about them. Talk about the best moments you both shared with each other. Tell how valuable you felt your time was with them and thank them for making you a part of their life. In the end, wish a hearty and truthful goodbye.

    2. GET YOURSELF SOME TIME.
    This does not mean you stop doing everything and watch sad, romantic movies while enjoying a tub of popcorn. No. Do the things you are supposed to do. Don't take time to "recover". It isn't a wound, it's a memory. Keep going, complete everything left undone, thanks to your heart's problems. Write, write more, read, read more, think, think nothing. Just do what you're meant to at that time and finish your work.

    3. STOP ACTING AWKWARD.
    Don't, repeat, don't take down your pictures from social media. Don't delete your texts. Don't use Drake lyrics as instagram captions. Don't talk shit about them now. Don't forget them, keep them as lessons. Just don't dramatise your life. If you see your now-ex, wave a hi, ask them how they are. Talk to them, say bye before you leave. Keep attending parties, keep going for movies. Don't pretend they don't exist. After all, they brought you some of your happiest smiles and best gifts. Don't believe that crap of 'oh we are exes, we can't be friends, ew'. That shit is dumb. Grow up, continue to talk to them when you have to. Simplify your own life.

    #pukethesea

  • pukethesea 44w

    #breakupadvice #readwriteunite

    Yes, like most people who give amazing relationship advice, I have been single all my life ;) No, I am not (that) ugly I promise xD

    COMMENT below if you've ever dealt with a break up this way. Or if you think this advice is good enough. REPOST!

    @readwriteunite @writersnetwork @writersofmirakee @mirakee @mirakeeapp @numinous_writers @thebackstory @inkscapeco

    Read More

    Getting Over a Breakup

    1. TALK TO WHOM YOU BROKE UP WITH.
    This may seem silly, but it really helps. Tell that person about how you still feel about them. Talk about the best moments you both shared with each other. Tell how valuable you felt your time was with them and thank them for making you a part of their life. In the end, wish a hearty and truthful goodbye.

    2. GET YOURSELF SOME TIME.
    This does not mean you stop doing everything and watch sad, romantic movies while enjoying a tub of popcorn. No. Do the things you are supposed to do. Don't take time to "recover". It isn't a wound, it's a memory. Keep going, complete everything left undone, thanks to your heart's problems. Write, write more, read, read more, think, think nothing. Just do what you're meant to at that time and finish your work.

    3. STOP ACTING AWKWARD.
    Don't, repeat, don't take down your pictures from social media. Don't delete your texts. Don't use Drake lyrics as instagram captions. Don't talk shit about them now. Don't forget them, keep them as lessons. Just don't dramatise your life. If you see your now-ex, wave a hi, ask them how they are. Talk to them, say bye before you leave. Keep attending parties, keep going for movies. Don't pretend they don't exist. After all, they brought you some of your happiest smiles and best gifts. Don't believe that crap of 'oh we are exes, we can't be friends, ew'. That shit is dumb. Grow up, continue to talk to them when you have to. Simplify your own life.

    #pukethesea

  • neemadatgurl 44w

    F advices. Do what you want. Do what makes you happy. Drain him out of you, even if you'll have to cry the shit out of yourself. Keep do-ing. That I'm sure will help you get through.

    #breakupadvice @readwriteunite

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    BREAKUP ADVICE

    It's going to be hard, so fkin hard. The best part is that no matter how hard it gets, you'll get over it some day. In a month, a year or a couple years.

    1. RESIST.
    You'll most likely have the tendency to text/ call the person during the first few days (trust me that feeling sucks) but know that that will do absolutely no good to you. You'll only fall in love with him even more. Do everything you can to not contact him.

    2. HATE.
    No matter how good he is, find a few reasons to hate him as that will help you a lot in moving on. But, know for yourself that hating him should be temporary. Once you get over the breakup, forgive yourself for hating him with apparent reasons.

    3. INDULGE.
    Spare all your time for yourself and for others. Indulge yourself in whatever possible activities you can. Help people in need. Be there for your friends and family. Have lots of coffee and most importantly, feel self-worthy. Not blaming yourself for the cause of breaking up will do you a lot better.
    ©neemadatgurl

  • words_not_people 44w

    No one recovered from breakups
    by following #breakupadvise

    And yet for writing prompt,
    It was something that connected them all...


    ©pndyamit

  • tamarajovanovic576 44w

    BREAKUP ADVICE

    1. WRITE - it cleanses you.
    2. SOCIALIZE - it allows you to forget for a moment and take a breath. It's a breath much needed. Take it.
    3. TRAVEL - it spreads your wings, wings you had all along but forgot. So go remember


    ©tamarajovanovic576