I have come across many people complaining about situations where they feel deprived or hurt or even neglected because they *THINK* the other is not fulfilling their expectations. Is that the case with you too? Halt. Think. Did you let them know what you expect? If someone doesn't know what you want them to do, is there any chance that they might just do it on their own. As if someone's got the supernatural ability to read your mind. No. Doesn't work this way.
Let people know what you expect. And then, let them decide if they can live up to that. Is it okay for them to live upto that. If Yes, great! You get what you want. If no, you at least get to know their side of the story and you get to choose. If the person is worth your time and efforts. Be open people. Be authentic. Open up and see how this simple thing changes it all.