When you love someone, you have to make sure they can be themselves with you and express their feelings without any fear. The most beautiful thing is the power and freedom to share your mind, without the other walking away.
My heart awaits the high tide Lips are yours but don't hide Let the storm be ours tonight I'll be here unwinding words With you, for you, or for us Until you know your mind Is mine not yours anymore Don't hold back in your heart It will ache, then hurt me too To save myself from pain I first need to save you Let your lips softly give in I'll give belief to love again I'll take the harshest of waves Easy like your beautiful smile But just don't stop your lips Don't deprive me of this kiss
Never let anyone pressure you into compromising with your morals, values or modesty. If they expect you to change with the "time" just to please them, then they're not interested in you in the first place and definitely don't give 2 hoots about treating you with respect. Move on.
If you really observe, you'll start to notice that not a lot of people will be comfortable answering your why's. Simply because, it puts them in a vulnerable position and if they're not being genuine, they won't be able to answer clearly and avoid you or get aggressive. However, if they really care about you, they'll never be bothered by questions.
But of course, make sure you practice what you preach! Can you answer "why" easily? At what point do you start arguing?