Why I want to marry a sikh guy?
Often people ask me, why Harleen why just a sikh guy?all other guys are bad?why so orthodox?why such religious? etc etc
Well, it is very simple , a gursikh guy will be in his most natural form , the way he was born.And he would understand all the meanings behind everything I am doing or I am not doing, his group will be of the people who'll not pass on negativity about me to him and make him feel bad about his wife's physical appearance. So, both of us will be in positive state of mind from all this.And even if someone does , then both of us will be there to help each other ignore those negative comments.
Next, he'll not judge me by my looks,so that is exactly what i want, I don't want someone to love what i look like but what I am actually . I want someone to love me the way i am and not the way I can become after doing some modifications in me.I want someone to love my stupidity and understand my approach to life. That is what I feel a gursikh guy can complete for me.
Then, I'll be becoming a gursikh too, so in that case there are a lot of things to keep in mind.And it might get difficult for a non gursikh person to take care of them always. So, I want a gursikh guy who knows all of it and the one who helps me grow as well.
Also , in sikhi the marriage is called "Anand Karaj" ( Anand means happy and karaj means work)
and marriage in sikhism doesn't only mean marriage between two families or two people to live life king size. No, it means that both the partners will help each other reach that one god , that one creator and will help each other to live the life the way it is written in Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji.
I might have sometimes also said that I want a guy with flowing beard and a nice dumala on his head , because then I assume that he knows the basic meanings of sikhi and he respects the God's gifts by keeping the way they were given to him and without any changes.
And here , no where I wanted to hurt anyone's religious views,or wanted to say that non sikhs are bad. I agree that everyone has their own views and thoughts ,so I completely respect those.I am just saying that i have my own views about things too , and that should be acceptable.