The best piece of advice I ever got!
Abacar Hiuane Abacar
It was from this girl, five years ago. She told me, "Abacar, you should not be dating girls for the sake of dating, if you choose to ask someone to be your girlfriend, let it be someone who you see yourself getting married to, having a family with and building a home, a life". At first I thought to myself, 'nonsense', but now I follow that advice to the letter. Ironically, having said that she pretty much guaranteed the fact that she would never be my girlfriend, which was what she wanted and she knew that. In spite of that, she went ahead and told me this with no hesitation. And from this, I believe there is another valuable lesson to be learned.
"A person who truly loves you will want your best, whether you are with them or not, even if it means sacrificing their love for you."