Before you say yes , get him angry . See him scared , Se him wanting , See him sick . Stress changes a person . Find out if he drinks and if he does , Get him drunk - you'll learn more about his sober thoughts . Discover his addictions . See if he puts you in front of them . You can't change people , Baby Girl , If they are made one way , It doesn't just wear off . If you hate how he acts when he's out of it now , You are going to hate it much worse eight years down the road . You might love him to bits but it doesn't change that some people just don't Fit ..!