Choice of love
Loving somebody is a choice and nothing else.
So I hope you get your term right , because you can love somebody , fall for people but then you can't say that now you just don't .that you've climbed back up.
The people who know what it means shall now find you dubious hence the dire value of your word desolate.
So choose your lover with inarticulate thought
As the word love means to never let go
To do everything that you possibly have in your domain to make sure she never separates.
So you know you that you can let her go... Know she will come back only then.