Number 4 ----
A touchy subject.
But, if you are always needing another to be happy, to feel complete, then you are always one moment away from a breakdown if that person leaves you or unhappiness, if the relationship you are in is not going well.
I am not suggesting to avoid relationships.
There is no force on this earth greater than LOVE and CONNECTION.
I am talking about those who can't LIVE, if they aren't in a relationship.
Those who will be with just about anyone, including all the wrong ones, just to avoid spending a moment being single.
What I AM saying is,
To develop enough mental strength that you get to the point,
Where you don't need others to make you happy.
You are just as happy being ALONE as you are in a relationship.