You know those people that get offended that you are offended by how disrespectful they are towards you? The ones that expect you to apologize to them when they make you feel like shit? You know the ones that say something offensive or upsetting about you and then say they were just joking? You know them, don't you? They are garbage, and you don't need to tolerate such people because you are feeling alone or think you are being snobbish or any other feelings that make you put yourself last. Your feelings are valid. If people can't respect them and acknowledge them, then just wave them bye bye.