I can pretend for a long time I know cause I have done it my whole life. I'm human I do get sad and sometimes even mad. No need to feel ashamed or point the finger at someone to blame. I am allowed to feel so now I don't have to make believe or pretend. Wouldn't it be better to encourage me and say how good I'm doing instead your taking and you know you shouldn't. Mix pot of Wells and wow's never once thinking to saying a positive word do you know that that would have just be enough.