We become what we do.
A learner becomes a learner by learning.
A driver becomes a driver by driving.
A cook becomes a cook by cooking.
Now think about this.
How does one become disrespectful?
How does one become authoritarian?
How does one become selfish?
With absolute honesty, evaluate what you have done each day. You would see what you are shaping yourself into.
If you are happy with what you see, carry on. If not, change.