Happiness means a state of being happy.
It is a feeling for which each one of us desire to achieve. We all wish to be happy. But, let us ask ourselves...
Are we ALWAYS happy?
Is our happiness PERMANENT or TEMPORARY?
99%, The answer is no.
So why are we NOT happy always?
Why is our happiness TEMPORARY?
Why is it LIMITED?
So the answer is that we have given the key of our happiness to the people around us, to the physical objects, to the situations of our life, etc.
Here, I would like to link our happiness to contentment. In this life we have mad our mindsets such that
“If I'll buy that plot in particular famous area, then I'll be happy”.
“If I'll purchase that phone then I'll be happy”.
“If I'll buy this object then I'll be happy”.
But, in reality these physical things don't have forever existence,even if we buy them. After buying them if they get destroyed then our happiness will be affected. On the other hand if we won't buy them then too our happiness is affected. This shows that we've kept the key of our happiness with the PHYSICAL OBJECTS.
Similarly, we think that the people around us WILL be the way WE want them to be and if they are NOT the way WE want them to be then we get hurt, depressed, angry , frustrated,etc. by them. These are negative feelings which PULL away our Happiness from us.
Now let's talk about the situations of our life. Yes there's the possibility that the situations in our life MAY be the way WE want them to be. But the condition for that is that we have to generate our thoughts accordingly. But in case if the situations are NOT the way WE want them to be then?
We say “Situation was NOT good and hence I'm nota happy”. This mentality is wrong because the situations of our life can NEVER be the way WE want them to be.
Hereby, let us understand that MY HAPPINESS MUST NOT BE DEPENDANT ON THE PHYSICAL OBJECTS, SITUATIONS OR PEOPLE AROUND US,etc. IF I WANT TO BE HAPPY FOREVER.
If we believe that “I can be happy if he/she behaves the way I want him/her to then we can't be happy.
Let's change our mindset, I'LL BE HAPPY FOREVER, ALWAYS, EVERYTIME IF I WANT TO. BEING HAPPY FOREVER IS MY CHOICE AND HENCE I CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY FOREVER. NO ASPECT CAN AFFECT MY HAPPINESS.
Let's FORGET ALL THE WORRIES OF PEOPLE, SITUATIONS, PHYSICAL OBJECTS, FUTURE CAREER,etc AND LET'S LIVE OUR LIFE HAPPILY, CHEERFULLY, BLISSFULLY.☺️☺️☺️
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