As we walk through life we have two choices. 1) we could just exist and linger around, what I like to call an unsettled soul. Or 2) live a life with a purpose, which allows you to feel a sense of accomplishment. Unfortunately I wasted over 34 years until I finally decided to stop fighting and give into the process. A hard head makes for a soft ass. I am on my journey to full filling what my purpose is in life. The sooner you except that we are not in control of how our life is suppose to go, the easier it gets.