When everyone knows that a Marriage is between two families, two hearts , connects two souls builds new relations that are new in their existence, fragile, respectable. Then why only girls are being forced to make any compromise, why not boys are being counselled to take few compromisable steps towards his own or his new family; what if a girl wishes to do something extra to please her hubby or her family, she is being reminded of her new family limitations, honour,rules and regulations?? Why so harsh for such a new member ?? Even when you know that She is not any wrong-doer, can't we give her some relaxations from our self made rule an all and sometimes it should be boys also to make some compromises to make her wife comfortable in such a new aura and families are kept in line when both the families and newly wedded girls and well as boys are being given relaxations whenever and whichever possible . !!