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Isn't it's lovely? All alone.♡♡
Heart made of glass, my mind of stone.
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_truewords 1d
Life is like a rolled-tyre,
When You give a push,
It goes off,
But When some stones get in between it's path,
It Stopped.
Same,
Our life has same thing.️️
But,
It doesn't mean that
now you will not fetch-up the tyre,
And don't push Again it forward.
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Why don't to this,
With your life,
Don't let your soul down,
Get -up and
approach your ambitions.
Life is like butterfly ,
It's your choice,
Whether you want to fly,
Or let our wing tied.
Don't let your life like a air fan,
Be air,
Like air fan, you should not be in control of others..
Be air, move anywhere.
Let your inner soul shout,
Let your outer soul to see world,
Let your middle soul cry,
Let you every soul happy.
_a message to myself©_truewords
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Just be quiet, one day people will want to listen your voice, then show them you attitude..
Be quiet
People will shout one day, for you
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Peace
• Listening to Arijit Singh Songs ♡
• My father smiling
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One day My papa said,
"Never trust on someone easily"
Now ,I'm realising it deeply..
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Can you write about my post,
How is it?
Is my post are really appreciatable or not,
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_truewords 4d
1. Life gives you second chance.
2. Family is much important than anything.
3. Without education, you are always **narrow -minded.
4. Always, don't believe in technology.
5. Not having someone to talk, always doesn't meant, that you are alone.
6. You have much brighter Future than you think.
7. Friends are important.
8. You always don't get what you deserve.
9. World is full of selfish people, be that person.
10. We can never get a country full of justice.
11. Your first friend is your sister.
12. People with fake identity are much famous than who deserve.
13. It doesn't hurt me", I'm fine" are the biggest lie ever.
14. You are still complaining and getting complained by others also.
15. People go and come according to their want.Different phase of life,
Taught us different things..
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Some people are so nice to me,
Like , I don't know their real face side..
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Problem is when you get
addicted to one person
as a friend..
But now you cannot talk..
©_truewords
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Socha Yaad Na Karke Thoda Tadpaun Tumhein,
Kisi Aur Ka Naam Lekar Jalaun Tumhein,
Par Chot Lagegi Tumhein Toh Dard Mujhe Hi Hoga.
Ab Yeh Bataon Kis Tarah Sataun Tumhein...
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On this new beginning,
May God gift you with
intelligence and wit.
So you could be smart enough
to follow @sarcasm
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liano23 3w
Dear 2020,
Thank you for all the lessons.©liano23
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Actually the problem is,
I can't differentiate b/w:
Hsskr dekh rhi hain
Ya
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colourfulgreys 3w
SKIN
It’s since childhood that I have been seeing creams (which people buy like mad) that makes girls fair so that it leads to loveliness (Hello “Fair and Lovely”!). Because obviously, for Indians, dark skin is not lovely.
I was once called “wheatish” by a professor in college. That was the first time I had heard that adjective for myself. I thought fair and dark were the terms for skin tones. Now there was wheatish. I was seen by my darker friends with some palpable envy. And I saw some smirk on the faces of the fairer girls. So there I was, somewhere in the middle of the newly discovered beauty scales.
I also remember how angry/ hurt/insulted I felt for not being considered fair by the professor. Even though I did not place importance to fairness, but now I realized I subconsciously did.
My dearest friend used to say, as a small wide eyed girl, when we were in fourth standard, that I was so beautiful, and by beautiful she meant that I was fairer than her. She told me how her mother used to apply “ubtan”, which is a homemade turmeric pack or something, to clear her skin. I had innocently asked her, “Your skin is already so clean, why clean it more”?”
By that time I had not realised that fairness is seen as pure and darker skins are meant to be cleaned, made to glow.
Thanks to “Black Lives Matter” movement, light has been shown to the discrimination girls face simply for their skin tones. Here in India too. But still the creams are being sold. Not as “Fair and Lovely” which is explicitly rude and demeaning to Indian women, but as “Glow and Lovely”.
And it is still demeaning. Why can’t we live as our normal selves, why do I need to be Fair/Glowing to feel confident. Or for me to become an air hostess, a model, an actress and even a news anchor? And primarily to be married?
All our self-worth is accumulated on our looks. If a girl by chance is fair, then we start scrutinizing her figure, and start fat shaming or preaching her to clean her body hair, or start smiling more.
(For example, I am so criticized for my acne filled skin and for cutting my hair short, and of course for my fat!)
Basically Indian society is stuck on the narrative of girls existing only for pleasing other people’s eyes. Not as individuals, with a mind and sense of humor but with a sense of inferiority about looks.
I look up to Deepika Padukone, Mayawati, Phoolan Devi, Nandita Das, Konkona Sensharma, Smita Patil, Beyonce, Maya Angelo, Michelle Obama, P V Sindhu. These are tremendous forces of nature known by their work, not their skin tones.
//It describes them, but does not define them.//
Let’s celebrate our bodies, skins and education and fitness.
Girls, we cannot expect society to change overnight nor the boys to start loving us as dark and fat.
It is on US GIRLS to start appreciating ourselves and our sisters irrespective of looks. And start loving our skin without the use of fairness and skin brightening creams.
“Your skin is not only brown
It shines and it tells your story” ~ Beyonce
© Harfkaar 29-12-2020
For @adithir and @bertha_beryl who are angels scolding me to write ;) #selfmusingsofj
I read somewhere the lines in //.//
Edit: My second POD. Check the other one #pod_of_j
Deeply grateful and equally surprised.
My Ninth WN repost check others at #wnrepost_of_j
All thanks to my sisters and friends here!!.
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yudhisthirr 3w
I left myself alone for those who left me alone.
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Battle of silence creates more noise than the battle of words...
©broken_lost_in_love
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shekhar_1211 4w
Sadness
..... The saddest part is when someone with whom
you make best memories...
Becomes a memory
©shekhar_1211
