It has always "yuck"ed me that anything and everything we does have something to be commented upon by remarkably unimportant people in our lives.
Well, do we go around asking their whereabouts? Well, lol, I don't even know who most of these people are.. Never seen in my entire life and they suddenly pop up questioning about everything..!⁉️
Just the last day I met some distant relative whom my mom introduced me as someone and she asked me "Oh dear, you have grown so thin!!" "Oh woman, who are you by the way!?"
The terrible part isn't that, it's when your parents agree with them too.. An inner screaming of "mom" or a stern look doesn't help and you would just end up, standing there, a smirk on your face and just wishing you could vanish into thin air..!
No matter how much we bicker, how much we try to avoid, this becomes a vicious cycle, just that the faces vary
If whatever we do must impress the people around, and if we get restricted within their views, what exactly is the point of being called an independent mature human?
My wishes to fly, climb, ride or run need not fit in others' perspectives.. Nobody is allowed to enter my world for the mere sake of sightseeing...No matter your advice, my decisions remain to determine my fate...And if I don't owe you for any of my boons, don't come in to share my woe‼️
My dad n mom named me AFSANA FABY KHAN ... AFSANA, an Arabic origin name has meaning in Urdu and Hindi as well ..it means "story"..lol FABY..that part was put in due respect and love to my late grandmom FAthima beBY ...and KHAN is of course my dad's name
Well.. that's how I got the name...and all throughout my life i have seen only very few people calling me by this name ACCURATELY ... ❣️❣️❣️ Still this name gets me noticed easily and not all can easily forget it too..