Assalaamalikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuhu every one , This is my last post and my last day on mirakee . Today night I will be deactivating my I'd . I would like to thank u all from.the inner core of my heart . Especially , some of them have supported me and gave me abundant of respect and love , which I will never be able to forget . I will not mention the names of my beloved ones on mirakee , I would like to thank u soo much. And I would like to ask forgiveness from all of you , if I hurted u anytime.
Tahe Dil se aap sab Ka bahot bahot shukriya. Mai aap sab ki Dil se manoon hun .
You know what thinking about the Rasams and riwaj makes me think they are so profane yet go down the throat in the name of so called "Armaan", "ek hi baar toh shadi hogi" etc., I will be honest the "Armaan nikalo" generally comes from the female faction most of the time. And All the do's and donts are piled on the head of the bride's family. 1. Baraat- This hideous concept of the baraat- Baraat were actually servants who used to lift jahez for the brahmins- the upper caste, it was originated from there. The baraat concept is no where to find in the Sahih Hadith. Infact we came to know from Hadith that one sahaba got married and Nabi (saw) upon smelling the fragrance and fragrance being the thing of rarity and royalty at that time , nabi (saw) then inquired the sahabi about it and he replied that he just had got married. The crux lies that the sahaba does not even invite nabi (saw). if that were so important would the great sahaba ever miss on this opportunity ? Nay my dear, nikah was made so easy and flexible by the Nabi saw and was highly encouraged. No need to invite mamu jaa , aunties *arey nahi naraaz ho jayge, log Kya kehge* , why are we believers then ? . The irony is that Barat are like "bin bulaye mehmaan",since the actual invitation is given by male side while the finance is on the head of the girl's father . Listen to the Hadith of Nabi( saw ), Nabi saw said that whoever attended and ate food without being invited it was as though "usne thoka aur tum ne Chaat liya", it is not the way of the Prophet saw so would not be the way of the Ummah of prophet pbuh. Even if you are going for Baraat somehow take your own tiffin or order the food and bear the expenses of whomever you have invited. It is wrong in sunnah to invite so called Baraat making them dine on the expenses of brides father. Remember Allah swt said,"this ummah is the best of the nation that is being produced because you call people to haq and forbid EVIL". Engagement ceremony. Exchanging ring etc These are also not the sunnah of the prophet saw nor the sunnah of the sahaba ajmain or the salaf ( ie their descendant ). So, no need of that.
If you want the marriage to be popular among angels and on the Arsh follow the way of Hadiths have stated, the Barakah and rehmat will be infront of your eyes. Else, you are free of your will
May Allah Grant us the Taufeeq for making marriages easy and without the Bidat and khurafaat ameen.
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Feel free to correct me of any mistakes. Comment down below your thoughts and your views about this. May Allah give you khair for speaking truth.ameen. JazakAllah khair @rumanrulesneverend for poking me write. BarakaAllahu feekum.
She realised someone was standing behind her, she could feel the chills down her spine. Hardly did she look back She was strangled upon the ground. It was like the grasp of Gog and megog (the notorious creature from whom none can escape save those by the Almighty) , she was petrified on the ground and the pain was as though her skin were being peeled off and that jolted her tremendously, she was wailing in pain but the cries couldn't escape her sealed mouth. A gush of blood pierced out from the jugulars, she was turning white , her legs tremored erratically as the pain etched to extremity.
The sun rose the next day- She woke up from the slumber when the sun rays falling were burning her skin on her cheeks turning burnt red, there was still the mark of fresh wound on her neck and the torch she had the last night laying down next to her. She realised her eyes as she looked at her reflection on the torch they appeared to be bloody crimson. she could feel the uncontrollable rage, the adrenaline rush was making her outrageous. The carnal desire of the blood upon seeing the dog she used to love to death blinded her humane mind. She is not "she" anymore. Her dog "lobby" trembled in helplessness as she sucked his blood completely like a maniac. The dog laid dead on the floor.
Yeah actually going with the standard of this age I can be called a "phattu". I never considered myself though*okay may be I am*. Till the infamous tenth standard (yes I don't like to say grade ) the world was "All bright and beautiful". The day had come, the day I would be called the "alpha senior" I was Excited not because I was moving to High school but because my new school was Coed *imagine me getting starry eyed, getting goosebumps, having glitters in my stomach* if I would be hero of that album "yaar Tera superstar" I would had already booked "honeymoon" package *baam*, (okay that's such a obnoxious comparison , hey don't judge me I am not desperate for a honeymoon). *Btw all the those who studied in all boys school can relate to my excitement,so no joke please it's emotions*
I had never in my life seen so many girls all at a once seated in two full rows in bulk, entering the class was bewildering, it was the alien-ish with rounded surprised face "woahhh" situation. I was murmering ," Chappad phaad ke Deni kya zrorat h, Ya Rab". Actually those who opted biology as an extra subject was merged with those whose were in the mains. It was then I realized, "life's difficult". I sat down, looking at the adjacent seat onlooking extra territorial species (since I felt alien ) seemed like a curse, I was so perplexed or infuriated that I wished to ask, "can you change your gender to male, I am kinda feeling so alien here ". Nonetheless I met a dude-whom the word "stud" is coined for. It was difficult like I could vouchs about the difference between Boys hailing from boys only school and ones from coed, the shock on the face was real.
I was smelling the conspiracy of the universe like my roll no was 13 and 12 and 14 were girls somehow I ended up being sandwiched, in practicals too I stood between them as Mr Nobody *All my excitement was becoming Phus* During the bygone era of 10th standard I used to walk like a blind man trampling ,strangling as I walked through the swarm of kids, When the recess or break happened and I used to walk like a mad man hitting almost everyone ( I felt so bad hitting so many girls in my way , thank God they were cool , hey but love at first sight did not happen, was I hitting it wrong or what ? Please tell me please.). But after a week or so I transformed myself like the protagonist of the matrix movie , the neo , I used to stand one end and calculated my path to escort myself out of the building, *square rooted it solved the quadratic equations and put all the trigonometry ,I swear, from day I walked without even touching anyone not even hitting boys, even some girls tried to hit because they were I guess my usual victim but "no dear " I knew they would had missed my ' hits'*.
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