Who does one think is with you FOREVER..!! Firstly just clear me out the meaning of this god damn thing. This always tends to complicate me in a method or another.
These words weigh so damn much. It’s like “we are going to be together FOREVER” or “FOREVER and ever” (awww amazing..!!) but sometimes it's not. Some will say why not, it's a soothing word? Ok, let me tell you a short story, once my blackmailer called me and said " roll in the hay whomever you wanna say, fuck anyone but keep this in mind that I will be able to be there within the end FOREVER" in here is that this word is AMAZING? if it is then shockingly I didn't felt that and when in oppose I said very bravely "don’t you dare..!! you'll not be ready to touch me. " he said, "no problem I will be able to RAPE you and force you to be with me.". Now that I even have reported case and everyone, that shit is over now but I can not stop brooding about it. people will say "buzz off, it happens” “who the hell is he” or my favorite “we are there for you." NO, you're NOT. please don't pretend such as you are; with my experiences that I used to be getting harassed in how or other I used to be the sole one to be there with me nobody else. Obviously, some people trying to be there for you but they failed eventually because you were mentally traumatized frequently by an individual due to one among the people whom you trusted or loved once. OK OK, I do know it’s complicated. But so is our life. right?
So hear me out people..!! if you're also affected by any kinda harassment, stalking, cyber mobbing, etc through which you are suffering you'll contact the undersign without even a second thought:-
Let people think about what they want to or talk about because you are the one who is suffering with nightmares, anxiety, constant crying without a reason, suicidal thoughts, in short, the main reason for your severe depression; and yes you have to understand that there are no flaws in YOU.
if you are feeling any kinda mental frustration or pressure you can contact:-
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (TALK)
The Samaritans: (877) 870-4673 (HOPE)
You are seeking help doesn't mean that you are not capable of things, doesn't mean you are weak.
"BE YOUR OWN HERO"
FEMINIST. Very strong word indeed.
I understand if you are little confused because that’s how feminism is, its complex, subjective, filled with debates and multiplicity.
But have you heard about PSEUDO FEMINIST. (If not, don’t worry I am here to help you.)
PSEUDO-FEMINIST is a person that claims to be a feminist yet ignores the main point, EQUALITY.
OK..!! Let’s take a simple example, Few days back a girl in the bus calling herself a feminist didn’t gave a seat to 70 years old man who was sick, now that is as worst as one can imagine. If this is feminism then one should not be feminist, but thankfully it’s not.
I think you people are well aware of the boy named “MANAV” and what has happened with him, after going through his incident I was bit confused must say. I mean the girl should have used a legal path rather than posting a status.
Because that is the perfect example of pseudo feminism.
It’s sad that one post from a girl in which she claims some serious allegations to him and on behalf of nothing, which sadly costs his life.
Do you know that 51% of the suicides among men accused of sexual assault were due to false allegations being levelled against them.
Its sad right? Here we are demanding equality for women in every aspect which is undoubtedly right but what about men? Ok, what about LGBTS?
In my opinion FEMINISM should not be only about equality for women, but it should be also about equality of GENDER. (Any kind of.)
Apart from that I have seen very cases where women are questioning other women about their career, marriage, etc, etc.
I am thankful that you are concern about each other this much that even you guys haven’t met yet still wanna speak for them (AMAZING.) and I know you love what you do but “There are women who love making food for their husband; some women want to take care of their house and children more than career.” This doesn’t make them slaves; it’s up to them to decide what they want to do. “I will not cook because it is sexist!” is probably the worst statement and probably very popular amongst the pseudo feminist.
We can make this world more loved by loving and respecting each other, despite any gender.
The rights should be equal for EVERYONE.
Last but not the least:-
“PROTECT WOMEN BUT DON’T HARASS ANY OTHER GENDER.”
As we are encountering the situation of 17-19 years old boys chat group about rape and sexual harassment and I have seen many comments like “they are just kids.” “You girls have the habit of making things superior.” And the best one “IT’S YOUR FAULT.”
IT’S YOUR FAULT.
"Stop seducing juveniles."
Do you think you get raped because of the sick mentality of a person. Absolutely NOT.
You get raped because you seduce them, you invite them to rape you and then you itself blame innocent souls who just got trapped in the first place and became YOU act as the victim.
By the way it all starts with WHAT YOU WEAR!! Do you know that scientific studies suggests that women who wear “CLOTHES” get raped.
And do you know why because boys have eyes. They can see, you know, so you should have dressed properly haa please..!!
Even a 3 year old is seducing these innocent men out there and giving them signals that ''ohh please rape me'' and these men are so innocent that they cannot deny such polite request.
It’s not about the age, since birth till death we just have work to attract men.
SUCH A MIND GAMER WE ARE!
Why are you getting humiliated by this truth? See, again you are playing as a VICTIM.
Ok just tell me one thing, why do you have male friends? See again IT’S YOUR FAULT BABE..!!
Who loves doing party? YOU.
Who gets drunk at party and invite boys to rape you? Undoubtedly YOU.
And by the way if its about sick thoughts, who is everyone’s first teacher? YOU WOMEN YOU.
Who gets questioned after getting humiliated? YOU. (As its your fault its obvios to get questioned, don’t need to make it a big issue btw.)
Who cooks in Kitchen? YOU.
It's your fault women. You nourished everyone, fed everyone, gave everyone basic skills, taught everyone manners and raised everyone. So what did we learn today?
IT’S YOUR FAULT WOMEN.
You know there is one fun fact: “IF IT’S YOUR HUSBAND IT’S NOT RAPE.”
Sometime it fetl like you have nothing left to do with your life, but no it's not the end. Life is full of surprises unless you are ready to open it. Just buckle up your spirit and unpack the glory of your life.