I was constantly taught; To hide all my tears as they were just fake cries; To become stronger than I could; Just to earn the label of a "man",yet becoming weaker than the lies; I was constantly taught; To man up before the sun rise; To get a job with profits even if the passion within me dies; If I don't beat up the boys who teased me; I am not "manly" enough to be called a man; If I try to wear make up like women around me; I am not real enough to be called a man; And when I got cheated on by my girlfriend; I was not a man because I cried; And when I was labelled as a cheater by my fake friend; I was looked down upon by numerous eyes; But I didn't do anything wrong to prove myself right; I didn't hurt anyone in my entire life; Still I am not "manly" enough to be called a man; And not "real" enough to protect myself if I can; I am a cheater as I was labelled by my friend; I am a sinner if I show a mirror to fake women, But inside all of this, I am just a human, A human with a heart, a human who is still a man
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I might not understand all the problems that you guys face, but I tried to tell you that your problems should not be hidden anymore. I tried to see the problems that men around me face, so please ignore if I miss out on anything. Hope you will like it
Did you ever play your favourite music or song whenever you were sad ? 90% anwers will be yes because it's something which we all need. Music and it's magic . We feel fire in music . We feel pain in music . We fell smile in music . Music makes us groove and sometimes makes us feel better. Something we bang music and sometimes lyrics get us. From ancient times , humans are fond of music . Music is one of the major frangment of your life. Just like an artist paints a canvas into a masterpiece A musical paints the emotions on canvas of our ears and hearts . Do you ever have question that why we understand lyrics more better whenever we are upset ? The answer is whenever we are sad or upset there's always a reason or incident behind.At that time of when we play our music , it makes us forget the incident and attract our mind in tunes . This is how magic of music works . Mood , music and melody . It's something that cannot be fully expressed into word . This our kinship with music ❤️ ~your boy king
Betrayal comes from those where it is least expected. What hurts the most is no matter how far you go. No matter how much you do for someone it's never enough . You just have to let go whether it's by will or due to the circumstances. Make peace coz you did all you could.
I think we all have this connotation of profound change being an instant realisation that strikes us into living our lives differently forever after but I don't think it necessarily works that way, and it definitely didn't work that way for me.
When I look back I can't really say there was this one dramatic decision I made that pointed my life in an entirely new direction but these small steps, sometimes shoves, towards aligning with something better.
The most I ever did intentionally was that I made an effort to listen to the advice of others more and stop trying to do everything my way.
But that adjustment had a domino effect on other behaviours and my life profoundly changed.
Change is usually not easy at first and when I look back at my life I regret all the times I ran away from growth because it felt uncomfortable. I'd been doing that my whole life for as long as I can remember
Finally allowing myself to change and sit through that uncomfortableness to get to the other side of it has made me so much braver.
I'm grateful for the change that has occurred in my life. I'm grateful that I have the ability to change and am unafraid to. I'm grateful that the universe is not static and the possibilities are endless