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  • psychologygirl 22h


    Do you heard about AYESHA from Ahmedabad?

    You must be, if not she committed suicide on 25th last month releasing a video as her husband tortured her brutally.

    is MENTAL TORTURE a big think?

    Okay we'll get into this later.

    Have to seen dove's new Ad

    Is there a Correlation between the two?

    Okay lets take one more example:
    Few days back one family came to my house for my rista.
    My father told me to apply BB Cream to look white and he said

    "Apan ko kisi bhi halat me apne aap ko pasand karvana hi hai iss bar. Aur unhone aap se pucha ki ap shadi ke bad padhyengi ya job krengi to apko "haan" nahi bolna hai, apko bolna hai jese apke ghar me hoga me vesa karungi"

    That uncle asked my father-
    Shadi me aap kitna karcha karengy?
    Or apni beti ko kya kya dengy?

    Ahh! Can you now see the correlation!

    Every girl has been told:

    "Bardast karna seekho"
    "Ladki ghar se dulhan banke jaati hai par vapis अर्थी mehi aati hai"
    Etc etc.....

    1) First correct this "BARDAST" meaning and set a limit.
    2) Dont push your daughter's into a Marriage where her worth is not weighted
    3) Accept "TALAAK" as an option. Do not think what others will say.
    4) take "Pre-Matrial counseling" to fill those missing gaps.
    5) Compromise and adjustments are part of every relationship but that's not a thing of only one partner.
    6) As a parent , Make your daughters Believe that you'll be there no matter what.

    As a girl what can you do?

    1) Observe thoroughly
    2)Talk straightforward
    3)check whether there's possibility of Compromise! If yes, is it from both the sides?
    4) Do not marry someone when you're heart is saying No.
    5) where DEMANDS are first, you first and last option should be always NO
    6)You can never be without an option remember that and allah is with you.

    **jiski jaha kismat hai,
    rista wahi hota hai.
    Talaaq ke bad bhi,
    Dubara nikaah hota hai**


  • muslimin 2d

    Hey, you ! stop scrolling for a second, I've to tell you something , you know, dark times can happen, bad days can happen,it can happen to be misunderstood, to be judged badly , to be treated like an animal, to be bullied and to no longer trust anything ,But I want to tell this you are not alone , Allah swt is always with you. Life always put you in front of obstacles, but don't throw yourself away, you're amazing and you and Allah only know how much effort you're doing to walk your path of life, don't chose suicide, it never can bring peace, after watching that news of ayesha ,the suicide one, I can't sleep, tears rolling down, I wish if I can hug her and can tell her she's not alone, even your battle is too little compared to others if I can assure her, if I can tell her how sweet she's, if I can tell her about the love of Allah , how much Allah loves her, I wish I can save her, but now we all can do is emphasize her, because she died, if she didn't think of that we people will treat her differently, we don't value of a living person and this is a harsh truth, dead people get more flowers than the living one, we only talk good about death, not when they're alive, roses for dead and thorns for the others, if she would live this life we would mock her, harassed her, bully her, taunt her, calling her charalcterless, just because she's divorced, this is truth of this so called high class, highly educated society. We literally pushed her to do that, people will definitely lead her to commit suicide, I am not defending her, But just trying to show the mirror, what would we do, we'd never appreciate her or sympathize her if she's not dead, instead we'd make her life like a hell, so she don't have one reason to suffer this hell anymore, she'll think the real hell is better than this maybe, we never used good words to people we don't know what kind of battle some people fighting in everyday maybe one kind word is the reason for someone life, and one abusive word is a reason of death, we don't realize that, one word can destroy someone's life in a second, we're so selfish always thinking about Me Me and Me, why don't we think about We, just turned it around it'll become Me to We. but all I can say suicide is not the solution, suicide in not the end of the pain, it just passes it on. In today's world mental health is the most neglected one, people laugh over it, it's stigma of this society, if someone dealing with mental issues it means he/she is mad or some, we're so cruel and we don't understand others pain until we have them. Some people compared depression with lack of faith in Allah, so uneducated people, being sad is different from being depressed, It is a disease , and you can be depressed instead being a true believer , after having full faith in God. It's just unfortunate how people think, and the worst disease of the society is dowry, shame just shame on them who think woman as a ATM machine, some demands dowry, some intelligent people do it another way, think her as bonus salary ,But the intentions and the mentality are the same, but in a polished way. ☺.Suited booted highly educated beggars.
    May Allah grant patience to her family and friends and forgive her Ya Allah ��

    Never ever think of suicide it's from shaytan, the worst enemy of ours
    " And do not kill yourselves (or one another) ,and Allah is to you ever merciful "
    Al Quran 4:19

    So a motivation for me and you ,whoever reading this and struggling silently don't be afraid ,the sun will shine again in your life, flowers will bloom again , and the smile will return to your lips, I hope you can find the serenity you seek, and the happiness you deserve , I hope you can find a good job, I hope you can find the love of your life, I hope you can always wake up with smile on your face, I hope that oneday you'll be able to fulfill your dreams that you has as a child, and that Allah give you the strength to fight your battles and shaytanic thoughts , I hug you my friend, and I wish you much luck for everything.

    God didn't promise day's without pain
    Laughter without sorrow or sun without rain
    But Allah did promise strength for the day ,
    Laughter for the tears, and a light for the way,
    Just don't give up, I still believe there is so much more to life than these dark moment of weakness, let your tears run dry, don't suppress it, your heart will up with lights soon again, I know mine will , hope and mercy of Allah keep me going , My only guide, and The best one, Ain't He???

    Sorry for this long and boring lecture come post, but I want to share my feelings that's all, if anyone will benefited from this I'll be blessed.May Allah grant us ease and patience in our hearts and protect us from Evil thoughts. Sorry for my grammatical errors, I'm not in that state. Please don't hesitate to tell my mistake..

    After a Long time ,but this time I want to share this, I can't resist myself for doing, I hope everyone remembers me :)

    #heartbreaking #ayesha #suicide #mentalhealth #dowry #allah #allahlovesyou #kindness

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    Suicide is not the solution,
    it's not the end of the pain.

    Please read the caption
    with lots of attention


  • _purple_ 1w

    #Allah #dua
    By unknown writer

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    Ya Allah
    Never make me helpless infront
    of anyone except you.

  • gulshan07 1w

    #Allah ap dounou ko jannat-ul-Firdous
    Ataaa karai ��
    #Miss uh both��

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    My parents taught me
    Except how to live
    Without them.

  • hoorbanu98 2w

  • invisible_star 2w

    I love Allah because he Forgives me
    Even when I can't forgive myself
    And I love Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) because he cared for me
    Even more than I cared for myself...

  • she_writes47 3w

    ہر بات پہ تمہارا یہ کہ دینا کہ
    دلوں کے حال تو اللہ جانتا ہے
    اسے آگے نہ خود کچھ کہنا
    نہ مجھے کچھ کہنے دینا
    دل کی بات کو دل میں چھپے رہنے دینا
    اب عمر بھر بات کو بس اتنا نہ رہنے دینا


  • aatifawrites 3w

    پرور دگار

    کیوں مانگتے ہو اوروں کے دربار سے
    ایسا کونسا کام ہے جو نہیں ہوتا تیرے، پروردگار سے

  • shaikh__naushy 3w


    Plan will make a beautiful
    Change in your life....✌

  • heartchapters 4w

    I have,
    no wishes
    no regrets and remorse
    no proud
    no need for being loved
    no revenge and
    I don't care about anything..
    I don't love and I don't hate..
    But I forgive the whole universe..cuz who am I, to not forgive? Isn't there the most Forgiving and the most Merciful benevolent God?
    Areeka Naveen

  • she_writes47 4w

    ماں باپ کا پیار اور اللہ کی مصلحت وقت کے ساتھ ساتھ ہی سمجھ آتی ہے.


  • sheikh__tahoor 4w

    If you want to know how much you love Allah, just look at how much you hate sins.

  • zappy__zaib 4w

    Dua karte hai kabhi maut aaye
    Toh lab par uss khuda ka naam aaye
    Ta-umar jise kiye lakho sajde
    Bs maut k baad uska didaar naseeb aaye

  • sheikh__tahoor 4w

    Keep your heart pure

    If your heart is pure, it cannot be affected by any evil in the world

  • sheikh__tahoor 5w

    I fear the Allah and after the Allah I fear the one who does not fear the Allah

  • lunatic_pen 5w

    'iidha kan allah mahabatan
    limadha 'akhadh habibiun wahdana tlw alakhar

    (English translation)

    If God is love
    why he took my love ones one at a time

    #mirakee #arabia #sultan #allah #pain

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    إذا كان الله محبة لماذا أخذ حبيبي واحدًا تلو الآخر


  • _purple_ 6w

    I found God beside me
    When everyone left me
    like a rotten piece of fish
    Which my Allah filled its noor
    and love making it more aromatic.
    Alhamdulillah ❤️

  • sheikh__tahoor 6w

    Distance increases the intensity of love, so the Kaaba is kept separate from Madinah

  • whystuti_ 6w


    मेहरबानी की अगर बात हो तो पल भर ठहर जाना ,
    दिल की हलचल का एहसास करना,
    खुदा को तुम अपने याद करना!


  • aatifawrites 26w

    #onlyformyfuturelove#halalisbettr#allah bestplanner#oneday i will be.happy more dn i.think

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    Sath chaye tera hr pal!
    Zubaan.ka nhi dil s sonch kr
    Aur sath chal k nibha kr meray sath rehna h..