I would like to correct the wrong lyrics and quotes famously used and so programmed into the heads of current generations.
- When you came, I felt pain... - Girl I love you, Even if you don't love me back... - Love is pain... - Love is suffering Blah blah ble and all this 'tricking the mind' poetry about love.
Love is a very beautiful thing. Very NATURAL, REAL and HAPPY part of life.
Nothing to do with sadness, pain and suffering. That happens when you were or are with the wrong person or people. That's absolutely normal. To be hurt when you are finally separate with the wrong one because of all the time and things spent together.
They wanna program you that the opposite attracts and love is pain and keep thinking of him/her. In reality opposite never really attracts. Maybe a temporary physical attraction but not spiritually.
Spirituality is the most important. When you feel that your soul actually attracts someone like YOU and feels easy and peaceful that is real love. Which is what we all need for life and hereafter :)
Your Fitrah you are born with it, it helps you determine the difference right and wrong. You already know what is right and wrong. And that dissatisfaction you have inside while you are with someone you say you love is actually telling you something...
Love is not pain again. It is peace and not forced peace but real peace inside you with the right people of course.
It's about your life. It's better to be alone and wait than to give in and live a fake life.
Vile women are for vile men, and vile men for vile women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women; such are innocent of that which people say: For them is pardon and a bountiful provision. [Qur'an 24:26]