अक्सर जो दिलों में होते हैं वो किस्मत में नहीं होते, वरना इश्क में जोगन हम यूं ही नहीं बनते , वरना कविताओं में दिल का हाल हम यूं ही नहीं सुनाते हैं, क्योंकि अक्सर जो दिलों में होते हैं वो किस्मत में नहीं होते.. .
तू साथ नहीं मेरे अभी, पर हमेशा रहोगे मेरे, एक वजह है तुझे बेवजह चाहने की, तू साथ नहीं मेरे अभी, फिर भी तुझे देखकर जो सुकून मिलता है, सारा मसला बस उसी सुकून का है, इसीलिए बस एक वजह है, तुझे बेवजह चाहने की, तू साथ नहीं मेरे अभी, फिर भी तेरी मुस्कुराहट की कायल हूं, मैं तेरी आंखों की चमक में मेरी खुशी है, बस बात यही है, कुछ तो वजह है तुझे यूं बेवजह चाहने की, अभी अभी तो मिले हैं, फिर भी कुछ खास से लगते हो, मानो मेरे लिए ही बने हो, तू साथ नहीं मेरे अभी, पर रहोगे हमेशा मेरे ही, कुछ तो वजह है तुझे यूं बेवजह चाहने की...
तू बिन कहे, केह गया सब कुछ मैं बिन सुने, सुन गई सब कुछ कैसी है दूरियां हाय, ये मजबूरियां अब जो तू ना साथ है फिर भी तेरी यादें, मेरे पास है... तुझे चूम लूं तुझे छू लूं तेरे साथ जी लूँ बस अब, इतनी ही दुआ है...
People curse their big hearts and to become numb. There are two kinds of people. The kind that gets rid of their feelings. And the kind that keeps them. If you're going to keep your feelings, you're going to get sick from time to time. That's just how it works."
Yeah, having a big heart is going to make somedays feel like the world is ending, there’s no way around that, but it’s big hearts like yours that make other people’s days feel like life cannot get any better. So, let your feelings make you sick. Hell, let them destroy you because one day you’ll look back and realize those were the moments worth living for.
Having a big heart will never make you less of a person. To have been able to love something or someone with that much intensity is the most beautiful, courageous thing in the world.
So, I dare you to wear your heart on your sleeve, scream your undying love from the rooftops, stay when you are scared, hold on tighter when you every part of your brain is telling you to let go because I promise you that you’ll regret it for the rest of your life if you don’t. We only have a set amount of time on this earth and no matter how great of a person you are, sometimes there is no next time, no second chances. One day you’ll come to realize what a blessing having a big heart was, but for now have faith that every ounce of pain you feel will somehow make your story perfect. So, keep your feelings, get sick, but don’t you even think for a second that this life would be easier if you became heartless.
//You can control everything - just belief it !! //
Nobody can take control of your life except for you, and although this concept seems incredibly simple, it’s not. There’s a lot of work involved, the key is simply to start. If you can start, you’re already halfway there. Now, of course, you should have some sort of direction. You can’t mindlessly decide that you’re going to conquer all the psychological challenges and habits that continue to transcend into every part of your daily life, as well as the quality thereof. However, you can plan your success and mold your response to life when it does happen. When you simply tell yourself that you’re not only going to win the day but actually believe that you are capable of doing so—when you are mentally action-oriented—the world is your oyster.
A little bit of self-love a day goes a long way because when you take the time to love and acknowledge yourself for all you are, you create a space for development. That’s when you grow, and my, oh my, is it bliss when you do. And so it is. Change starts with you. It won’t be easy, nobody said it would be easy.
So start. Recognize that you are in control and act accordingly. Don’t resist living a better, richer, and more fulfilling life. Love yourself, accept where you are, and create your own future. Everything is entirely up to you, no matter at what point you are at in your life—you can take control of it and win the day.
I was nominated for education category, and fortunately, by blessings of elders and by gods grace, I am being honored by the award by WEAA ORGANIZATION.
This is one of the most prestigious awards that appreciates, recognizes and acknowledges the efforts & hardwork of women, and encouraging women empowerment. I am thankful to the jury members and panel, team WEAA, for honoring me. Thank you so much.
We need to spend more time finding who we are and what makes us happy. We need to start realizing all of our amazing qualities and worth.
We’re much more than we ever give ourselves credit for. We’re go-getters. We’re boss ass bitches. We’re loud. We’re givers. Our smile is huge. Our personality is vibrant and can light up any room. This is our time to reflect on what an amazing person we are and do whatever is takes to make US happy.