Series : wordsforlife
This content is not against feminism or in support of masculism or anyones sentiments. It is a thought of equality and freedom, when you see every protest and slogans going against Masculism.
Women suffer the most so does Men. If there are Meetoo moments then there are Mentoo also. But do we see any candle march or debate or hunger strike for those horrific moments of Mentoo. Voice is always raised on feminism but what about Masculism?
Women bear the flames of dowry so does the Men are burdened with false dowry cases and domestic violence. There is no mechanism to find out fake cases as mostly, benefit of doubt is given to Women because of the law and ratio of such cases. We always hear that women has been abused but there is a other side of this story too. Where a women takes a superior role in abusing men. Does anyone watch Saas Bahu (mother-in-law daughter-in-law) serials where most of the grey protagonist are female, entirely can't be fictional right?, there will be a fact and reality in terms of those character. It is said Maa ka ladla and Papa ki pari. If anything is wrong or inequality, it starts from a feminine. Ab laad karoge and create inequality at home itself then why to blame others. Rules might have been written by men but it is carry forwarded by women and it starts from home and society.
We always gather, light candles and raise voice for rape cases, but there are many cases when it is false. Affairs gone wrong, revenge and to extort money. It is said men have extra affairs so does women. Men have affair with women so it needs two hands to clap, isnt it?. Men are blamed and abused on social sites for flirting, ditching, two timing. Don't women do the same?. Have you not seen women eve-teasing or miss using the rights and law given for women safety.
There are reservation for women but not for men?.There are special seats, queues, quotas for women but not for men. When we say equality then why not be equal. By mistake if a male passenger aboards or is seated in female coach or seat in public transport he is abused and fined. If on road a male bumps into female it is harassment and abuse or eve-tease with a dialogue "Gharpe Maa behen nahi hai kya" but if it is vice versa, it will be sorry, why a woman doesn't have "Baap Bhai at home?".
A bike skid on road there won't be anyone to help but will be said Romeo style maar raha tha. But if any woman falls everyone will be there with advices water and medical support.
Women doesn't have freedom, then who is the face of most of the news channel and serials. Whose voices we here as customer service from call centre, reception, air hostess, Announcement and hosts. Who leads team in MNC. Casting couch moments are there but it starts when a female accepts it for fame. Will anyone force you to? Who is preferred first with a good package of CTC? Stroll around Malls and any campus and joints or market you will find girls and woman the most. A girl, tops academy then girls perform better than boys but if boy tops then what does a boy has to do, konsa bada top maar liya.
Advertisement we see has faces of women, why men just wear clothes they don't bath?, or don't they take care of family. Any food endorsement women are seen or scrubbing utensils, then why in restaurants we pay so much for, who are those in kitchen and on street.
Point, raise voice and go against those who do crimes, but not against whole mankind. And so is this content, feminism is a right of equality and getting right to live. Not to be superior or empowerment. Or to take a dig at one another. As much women struggles same does men. We're human before man and woman. So support Humanism before Feminism and Masculism.