In 2016, I met a woman at Harold Washington College. Her name was Patricia. l That was the year I was doing a lot of cheating on my boyfriend. Patricia was in my Math class, and she was beautiful. she was not just a student, she was a tutor as well. She tutored English. She had blonde curly hair, and her skin was a light caramel complexion. She was half Puerto Rican and half African American. She smiled a lot, and I liked her smile. One time in my math class, our instructor informed us to work in groups of five. We had to do a math group project to present in class. Patricia decided that we should meet at her house to discuss ideas on what our project should be. She gave us her address. Patricia informed us that her house is far on the Northside and that we had to take the train to her house. When she said her house was far, I had second thoughts of not going to her house because I am so used to convenience. I live on the east side of Chicago, and she stayed in the suburbs. Thanks to my mother, she was inclined to drive me to Patricia's home. When I got out of the car, I observed her house. It was not a house, it was a two-flat. Her house was on the North Side but it did not look like the suburbs.
Patricia let me in her home and said, "Hey girl, you are the first one here." "Wow, " I said. "You want something to drink?" She asked. "Watchu got?" I asked. "I got tea and soda, " she said. "What kinda pop you got?" I asked. "Arizona Tea, Cola, and 7up, " she said. "7up is good, " I said. " Okay, " she said. I sat down on her couch and saw her flat-screen TV was on and the Channel was on "Law In Order."
"You watch Law In Order?" I asked curiously. "Sometimes, I just like to have the TV on while I'm doing things around the house, " she said. "Awe okay," I said. She handed me the 7up.
"Thanks," I said. "So what do you do for fun outside of school?" She asked. "I hang out with a friend. We go to the club every week, " I said. "Really? What kind of club, " she asked. "It's a strip club. We get private rooms to have sex with the strippers, I'm bisexual, " I said. "Wow, I didn't know that, you don't look like the type, " she said, being shocked with her mouth open. "Being gay or bisexual doesn't have a look to it, " I said. "Yeah you right, it doesn't," she agreed. "So you married right?" I asked. "Yeah he's upstairs, he likes to just watch TV all the time, " she said. "Awe he likes to be by himself? " I asked. " Yeah but he works from home, " she said. "Awe okay, " I said. "So you say you are bisexual? I tried that before, " she said. "I didn't know you liked women too, " I said. "I just wanted to try it with this one girl, we did it in her car years ago, " she said. "Damn, did you like it?" I asked. "I like the kissing part, I just don't like going down, " she said. "Wow, why you don't like going down?" I asked. "That's with anybody, I don't even like going down with guys," she said. "That's odd, " I said. "I know that sounds crazy. Hey, I have an idea, you wanna try it downstairs in my basement?" she asked. I was not expecting that from her, knowing that she was married.
"Ain't yo husband upstairs?" I asked, feeling uncomfortable. "Yeah, but he won't find out, we have a bathroom upstairs so he doesn't come down much, and he don't ever come down the basement, " she informed. "Awe okay, well ight, let's try it," I said.
When we infiltrated into her basement, her basement was filthy. It was cluttered with clothing everywhere on the floor.
"So what you wanna do?" I asked. "I want you to go down on me, " she demanded. "Ight, " I said. "But I want you to go down on me after, " I demanded as well. "Okay, " she said.
At that moment of time, we had oral sex in her basement. That was the best moment I ever had with an outside woman besides having sex with women in the clubs. After that day, I wanted more sex from her. Patricia declined to have sex with me again. As a female, I was acting desperate at that moment. That is why it is not good for a man or a woman to act desperate. That is a turn off to a man and a woman. When you have sex with a person for the first time, you should pretend you do not want to have sex with them again. I guarantee that woman or man will come back begging for it again. That is how we all should avoid being desperate. If that woman or man is playing hard to get, we should play hard to get as well. We should act like we do not want to be bothered. Patricia has left an imprint on me to this day. An imprint is the original. Meaning, the first person that you had sex with and the sex was amazing. It was the way that person made you feel. It was something the way Patricia made me feel at that moment. It was not love at all. It was just lust. That is how someone leaves an imprint on someone. She was the best thing that ever happened to me at that point. She was the first woman I had sex with outside the club. I know some of you men and women know exactly what I am talking about. To leave an imprint on someone, it is a form of seduction. Patricia seduced me at that moment. At first, I did not want to have sex with her because her husband was in the house. She had forced the situation on me. Basically, Patricia played me.