Long drives, parties, selfies, late night , eating good food, meeting new friends, trying out new stuff, visiting new places are all in your wishlist right and obviously it's been loved by every individual. Some live for it, some dream for it , but they ultimately wish to do so.
Tell me, when you took your mother out for a drive, when was the last time you asked her to go out with her friends, when was the last time you took a selfie with her ( mother's day and her birthday are excluded), when you complimented her about her looks, as you compliment any random girl. When you asked her to sit and watch a movie with you and you made a cup of tea for her?
And if you say you do this often, then trust me you are the best.