Perfection is overrated. No one can obtain it, or give it, and certainly no one is born with it. So stop trying to be it. Just be who you are, no doubts, no questions.
It's the little insecurities and imperfections that make you perfect. Perfect for someone, perfect for those who accept you, no matter how many chips and cracks you obtain in your life. Perfect for you.
So stop trying to obtain perfection.
Just obtain authenticity.
You've had that all along.