Quotes and Poetry on problem

Do things you enjoy��

Set aside time to do something that makes you happy every day, whether that means cooking, reading, exercising, gardening, or spending an hour just talking with your spouse.

Don't feel guilty for this time you've set aside to enjoy; you deserve it. Repeat that statement as needed.

Experiment with new activities; you might learn about talents or skills you didn't know you possessed.

Maybe you take up running track and discover that you are really good at long-distance running, something you'd never thought of before. This can help increase your self-esteem.

Consider taking up artistic activities such as painting, music, poetry, and dance.
Artistic endeavors often help people learn how to express themselves and attain a sense of 'mastery' of a subject or skill.

Lots of community sentences offer free or reasonably-priced classes.

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Do things you enjoy

Set aside time to do something that makes you happy every day, whether that means cooking, reading, exercising, gardening, or spending an hour just talking with your spouse.

Don't feel guilty for this time you've set aside to enjoy; you deserve it. Repeat that statement as needed.

Experiment with new activities; you might learn about talents or skills you didn't know you possessed.

Maybe you take up running track and discover that you are really good at long-distance running, something you'd never thought of before. This can help increase your self-esteem.

Consider taking up artistic activities such as painting, music, poetry, and dance.
Artistic endeavors often help people learn how to express themselves and attain a sense of 'mastery' of a subject or skill.

Lots of community sentences offer free or reasonably-priced classes.
©ashart

hanibletheone 1d

#thehanibles #mirakee #problem #ShesCrazy #home #scared #talk #look #love #ImSorry #sorry #wrong #reply

It's Always A Problem

I'm scared to go home
She's crazy
She finds a problem with everything
Like i said
I'm scared to go home
I'm scared to talk
I'm scared to even look at her
I'm sorry
Is always my reply
Even if I didn't do anything wrong
I love her
But
It's Always A Problem
With her
©hanibletheone

ashart 1d

Be deliberate with your thoughts and beliefs��

Try to focus on positive, encouraging, and constructive thoughts. Remember that you are a special.

one-of-a-kind person that deserves love and respect - from others and from yourself. Try these strategies:

Use hopeful statements. Be optimistic and avoid the self-fulfilling prophecy of pessimism. If you expect bad things, they often occur.

For example, if you anticipate a presentation going poorly, it just might. Instead, be positive. Tell yourself, "Even though it's going to be a challenge, I can handle this presentation."

Focus on "can" and avoid "should" statements. "Should" statements imply that there is something you ought to be doing.

this might cause you to feel pressured if you can't meet these expectations. Instead, focus on what you CAN do.

Focus on the positive. Think about the good parts of your life. Remind yourself of things that have gone well recently.

Consider the skills you've used to cope with challenging situations.

Be your own cheerleader. Give yourself positive encouragement and credit for the positive things you do.

For example, you might note that although you're not getting all the exercise you'd like to be getting, you have been doing to the gym one extra day a week Give yourself credit for making positive changes.

For example, "My presentation might not have been perfect, but my colleagues asked questions and remained engaged — which means that I accomplished my goal."

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Be deliberate with your thoughts and beliefs

Try to focus on positive, encouraging, and constructive thoughts. Remember that you are a special.

one-of-a-kind person that deserves love and respect - from others and from yourself. Try these strategies:

Use hopeful statements. Be optimistic and avoid the self-fulfilling prophecy of pessimism. If you expect bad things, they often occur.

For example, if you anticipate a presentation going poorly, it just might. Instead, be positive. Tell yourself, "Even though it's going to be a challenge, I can handle this presentation."

Focus on "can" and avoid "should" statements. "Should" statements imply that there is something you ought to be doing.

this might cause you to feel pressured if you can't meet these expectations. Instead, focus on what you CAN do.

Focus on the positive. Think about the good parts of your life. Remind yourself of things that have gone well recently.

Consider the skills you've used to cope with challenging situations.

Be your own cheerleader. Give yourself positive encouragement and credit for the positive things you do.

For example, you might note that although you're not getting all the exercise you'd like to be getting, you have been doing to the gym one extra day a week Give yourself credit for making positive changes.

For example, "My presentation might not have been perfect, but my colleagues asked questions and remained engaged — which means that I accomplished my goal."
©ashart

kv1504 1d

#mirakee #unemployement #problem #writerstolli #writersnetwork #pod #tod_wt
@writersnetwork @writerstolli @mirakee @mirakeeworld @twt_official

Unemployement

Nothing could hurt us more than sitting void,
But you can't help it, being unemployed.
Leave money, think about your mental state,
Sorry, we can't help it, it is increasing on a high rate.
1000 degrees in hand but no job is reserved,
And that is how a person sits idle even on being deserved.
It becomes shameful when society comes to taunt,
And those freaking nightmare who don't leave a chance to haunt.....
©kv1504

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blackmail_offline_love 2d

#problem #nature #life #poetry #thoughts #love #inspiration #diary #friendship

problem

if you can't solve the problem
so you are problem.
©blackmail_offline_love

ashart 2d

Cultivate courage��

Being real means being courageous. Sometimes you make yourself vulnerable to the criticism of others if you go your own way and don't conform to who everyone expects you to be. Moreover, being more introspective may cause other shifts in your life that you need to be prepared for.

For example, perhaps in the process of self-reflection, you realize that you are not happy in your current relationship and that you spend much of your time trying to pretend to be the perfect girlfriend who does all the expected and correct things.

It takes strength and courage to fight against social pressures and the reactions of others.

Remember that you are always deserving of love and acceptance. You are who you are and if people can't love you for that, then perhaps they're not the right fit for your life.

Avoid shaming yourself. Becoming more self-aware means also realizing that you are an imperfect human and that you have flaws. But no one is perfect.

Perhaps you are a control freak or bossy. Instead of shaming yourself, accept those imperfections and try to find ways to cope with and alleviate them.

Also consider how those flaws can be thought of as positives in some situations; your control freak nature, for example, means that you are never late with assignments or meetings.

Moreover, because you have flaws, this makes you better able to empathize when other people make errors. All of the different parts of yourself - flaws and all - make you who you are.

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Cultivate courage

Being real means being courageous. Sometimes you make yourself vulnerable to the criticism of others if you go your own way and don't conform to who everyone expects you to be. Moreover, being more introspective may cause other shifts in your life that you need to be prepared for.

For example, perhaps in the process of self-reflection, you realize that you are not happy in your current relationship and that you spend much of your time trying to pretend to be the perfect girlfriend who does all the expected and correct things.

It takes strength and courage to fight against social pressures and the reactions of others.

Remember that you are always deserving of love and acceptance. You are who you are and if people can't love you for that, then perhaps they're not the right fit for your life.

Avoid shaming yourself. Becoming more self-aware means also realizing that you are an imperfect human and that you have flaws. But no one is perfect.

Perhaps you are a control freak or bossy. Instead of shaming yourself, accept those imperfections and try to find ways to cope with and alleviate them.

Also consider how those flaws can be thought of as positives in some situations; your control freak nature, for example, means that you are never late with assignments or meetings.

Moreover, because you have flaws, this makes you better able to empathize when other people make errors. All of the different parts of yourself - flaws and all - make you who you are.
©ashart

ashart 3d

Know that you don't have to prove anything to anyone��

All people want to be validated by others. We want others to feel proud of us and want to be connected to us. But you have nothing to prove;

you don't have to show the people around you or the world in general that you are a good person who does good things.

Similarly, you don't have to hide those flaws that make you human. Guess what, if you're late sometimes, chances are that other people have been late at some point in the past.

Being real means not only accepting your own strengths and weaknesses but letting other people see those as well. Trust that if you can forgive and accept yourself, others will too.

It's exhausting to constantly pretend to be someone you're not for the benefit of others.

Be real with people and they'll probably accept and embrace you to an even greater extent because they can see that you're just like them - a normal human being who makes mistakes sometimes but also does great things and has lots to offer.

For example, maybe you have a tendency to be late, but you always insist on finishing a job before you leave the office.

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Know that you don't have to prove anything to anyone

All people want to be validated by others. We want others to feel proud of us and want to be connected to us. But you have nothing to prove;

you don't have to show the people around you or the world in general that you are a good person who does good things.

Similarly, you don't have to hide those flaws that make you human. Guess what, if you're late sometimes, chances are that other people have been late at some point in the past.

Being real means not only accepting your own strengths and weaknesses but letting other people see those as well. Trust that if you can forgive and accept yourself, others will too.

It's exhausting to constantly pretend to be someone you're not for the benefit of others.

Be real with people and they'll probably accept and embrace you to an even greater extent because they can see that you're just like them - a normal human being who makes mistakes sometimes but also does great things and has lots to offer.

For example, maybe you have a tendency to be late, but you always insist on finishing a job before you leave the office.
©ashart

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alextheft Good morning motivation.

ashart 3d

Life Gives you more than thousand opportunities and if you choose to be Successful then you find the way to got it, you never stop by internal and outer problem and you never try to control anything, you just clearly know thing that I have To Achieve It.

��Be Prepared All the time ��

Because

��Preparation Is Better Than Cure��
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Be Prepared All The Time

Because

"Preparation is better than Cure"
©ashart

vasubandhu 4d

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© Vasubandhu

ashart 4d

Foster an open mind❤��

Be open and expose yourself to new ideas and multiple perspectives on things. Binary (e.g., good-bad thinking) can trap you in a cycle of judgement and really limit to your ability to be your true self.

Embrace life as a constant cycle of learning; as your opinions, ideas, and values change, so will your interior and real self.

Being open can mean different things. Read a book or take a class on a subject you don't know much about or even a subject you think you already have mastered.

This can help you answer questions you have about the world around you and develop your own set of beliefs.

For example, a lot of university students undergo a transformation in their self-identity as they learn and are exposed to new things and are separated from their parents really for the first time.

Learning is one way to open your eyes and discover what resonates with you. Maybe you have questions about religion, so you decide to take a university class on the different religions.

Maybe you want to know about your position as a woman in the world and so you take an introductory class on women's studies.

Remember that maintaining a sense of curiosity about the world is one way in which to keep yourself excited and energized about life.
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Foster an open mind❤

Be open and expose yourself to new ideas and multiple perspectives on things. Binary (e.g., good-bad thinking) can trap you in a cycle of judgement and really limit to your ability to be your true self.

Embrace life as a constant cycle of learning; as your opinions, ideas, and values change, so will your interior and real self.

Being open can mean different things. Read a book or take a class on a subject you don't know much about or even a subject you think you already have mastered.

This can help you answer questions you have about the world around you and develop your own set of beliefs.

For example, a lot of university students undergo a transformation in their self-identity as they learn and are exposed to new things and are separated from their parents really for the first time.

Learning is one way to open your eyes and discover what resonates with you. Maybe you have questions about religion, so you decide to take a university class on the different religions.

Maybe you want to know about your position as a woman in the world and so you take an introductory class on women's studies.

Remember that maintaining a sense of curiosity about the world is one way in which to keep yourself excited and energized about life.
©ashart

ashart 5d

Redefine your values��❤��

Keep in mind that being real is a constantly evolving process. Life changes, and so will your values. You're not the same person at 30 years old as you were at 15.

Over the years, you'll likely suffer from cognitive dissonance, a psychological term that refers to the stress or discomfort experienced when you hold contradictory beliefs or your beliefs and actions do not match, at some point(s).

So you will constantly need to be learning about yourself, sorting through your beliefs and discarding what is no longer relevant and embracing what matters in the moment.

Being real is a constant process of redefinition of yourself and who you want to be.

Maybe, for instance, when you were 13 years old, you wanted to be married and have children by 26 years old so you could be a young mom.

However, if you're now 30 and neither married nor a parent, you may need to reevaluate that goal and belief.

Maybe you decided that your education and career are your top priorities, or maybe you just didn't find the right partner. Or maybe your beliefs changed and you no longer believe in the institution of marriage.

Reflecting on your life and your interior self (those thoughts and feelings from within) can help you redefine what it is you believe and your identity at different stages in your life.

Note that it’s hard to be real at any age if you don't know what your fundamental desires, wants, needs, and values are!

You have to be willing to realize that things change and, most importantly, that YOU change over time.
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Redefine your values❤

Keep in mind that being real is a constantly evolving process. Life changes, and so will your values. You're not the same person at 30 years old as you were at 15.

Over the years, you'll likely suffer from cognitive dissonance, a psychological term that refers to the stress or discomfort experienced when you hold contradictory beliefs or your beliefs and actions do not match, at some point(s).

So you will constantly need to be learning about yourself, sorting through your beliefs and discarding what is no longer relevant and embracing what matters in the moment.

Being real is a constant process of redefinition of yourself and who you want to be.

Maybe, for instance, when you were 13 years old, you wanted to be married and have children by 26 years old so you could be a young mom.

However, if you're now 30 and neither married nor a parent, you may need to reevaluate that goal and belief.

Maybe you decided that your education and career are your top priorities, or maybe you just didn't find the right partner. Or maybe your beliefs changed and you no longer believe in the institution of marriage.

Reflecting on your life and your interior self (those thoughts and feelings from within) can help you redefine what it is you believe and your identity at different stages in your life.

Note that it’s hard to be real at any age if you don't know what your fundamental desires, wants, needs, and values are!

You have to be willing to realize that things change and, most importantly, that YOU change over time.
©ashart

ashart 1w

Do something for and with yourself❤��

Take a day off and go for a hike by yourself. Eat at a restaurant alone. Or, better yet, travel by yourself. Some people find that some alone time is the best way to learn about themselves.

They learn about what they can and can't do and what they want and don't want and usually emerge from a temporary solitary experiment feeling stronger and more in tune with themselves.

Maybe, for example, you discover that you really enjoy "getting lost" in cities and prefer wandering around as opposed to scheduled tours.

Sometimes it can seem in our modern world that to want to be alone is weird and unsettling. But some alone time can have several benefits;

it can help you build your confidence, realize that you don't need the validation of others, learn to value your own opinions (as opposed to those of others) as well as invite opportunities to reflect on recent changes and "rearrange your mental furniture" to adjust to your changing life.

Alone time can also help you home in on what exactly it is you want from life and give you that sense of purpose and direction so many of us crave.
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Do something for and with yourself❤

Take a day off and go for a hike by yourself. Eat at a restaurant alone. Or, better yet, travel by yourself. Some people find that some alone time is the best way to learn about themselves.

They learn about what they can and can't do and what they want and don't want and usually emerge from a temporary solitary experiment feeling stronger and more in tune with themselves.

Maybe, for example, you discover that you really enjoy "getting lost" in cities and prefer wandering around as opposed to scheduled tours.

Sometimes it can seem in our modern world that to want to be alone is weird and unsettling. But some alone time can have several benefits;

it can help you build your confidence, realize that you don't need the validation of others, learn to value your own opinions (as opposed to those of others) as well as invite opportunities to reflect on recent changes and "rearrange your mental furniture" to adjust to your changing life.

Alone time can also help you home in on what exactly it is you want from life and give you that sense of purpose and direction so many of us crave.
©ashart

ashart 1w

Build your relationships on respect❤��

Mutual respect should be the foundation of each relationship you're starting, whether it is casual or more committed. Love and passion are beautiful things: but keep away from love devoid of respect. It is dangerous and can become creepy: or at least, pretty unnerving !

Stay on your guards if your love interest ever treats you with meanness, rudeness or despise.

Refuse insulting terms, hurting laughs, or dismisses of your freedom- even if they're only occasional. When a date gets really bad, make up some excuse and go away.

Never stay in a relationship that brings you more sadness than joy. You don't have to put up with any condescending or violent treatment. Ask your friends, family -or even the police !- for help, if needed.

Still, keep in mind respect does not mean complete devotion or putting someone on a pedestal. Gentle laughs and good-humoured teasing are a show of familiarity, but not an offensive one.

Quarrels and arguments happen in the most loving relationships. So don't go to the other extreme and become paranoid or exacting with your partner.

On the other hand, be sure to behave respectfully with your love interests. If you have no interest in seeing someone again, be distant but still polite. Remember to thank the person after a date invitation and ask for news from your social circle now and then.

Don't get angry over little things, for instance somebody's showing off a little late. If you disagree with a person's point of view, express your own opinions in a calm and firm manner.

Keep in mind laughing and joking are great ways to bond with someone but that mocking is not. Once you get to know a person better, be a considerate lover.

Propose a lift, show interest, give a small present once in a while, cheer him/her up after a bad day, lend an attentive ear, give spontaneous hugs...and so on. Of course, don't overdo it ! Don't become excessively devoted or intrusive.

You can respect and love a person and still say no to him/her once in a while.
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Build your relationships on respect❤

Mutual respect should be the foundation of each relationship you're starting, whether it is casual or more committed. Love and passion are beautiful things: but keep away from love devoid of respect. It is dangerous and can become creepy: or at least, pretty unnerving !

Stay on your guards if your love interest ever treats you with meanness, rudeness or despise.

Refuse insulting terms, hurting laughs, or dismisses of your freedom- even if they're only occasional. When a date gets really bad, make up some excuse and go away.

Never stay in a relationship that brings you more sadness than joy. You don't have to put up with any condescending or violent treatment. Ask your friends, family -or even the police !- for help, if needed.

Still, keep in mind respect does not mean complete devotion or putting someone on a pedestal. Gentle laughs and good-humoured teasing are a show of familiarity, but not an offensive one.

Quarrels and arguments happen in the most loving relationships. So don't go to the other extreme and become paranoid or exacting with your partner.

On the other hand, be sure to behave respectfully with your love interests. If you have no interest in seeing someone again, be distant but still polite. Remember to thank the person after a date invitation and ask for news from your social circle now and then.

Don't get angry over little things, for instance somebody's showing off a little late. If you disagree with a person's point of view, express your own opinions in a calm and firm manner.

Keep in mind laughing and joking are great ways to bond with someone but that mocking is not. Once you get to know a person better, be a considerate lover.

Propose a lift, show interest, give a small present once in a while, cheer him/her up after a bad day, lend an attentive ear, give spontaneous hugs...and so on. Of course, don't overdo it ! Don't become excessively devoted or intrusive.

You can respect and love a person and still say no to him/her once in a while.
©ashart

chitraveena 1w

#time #love # life #problem #importance #nature #love #travel #life #inspiration #friendship #poetry #thoughts #diary

Time

Time plays an important role in everyone's life...
Until and unless you proved to be worth of handling it....
Time never comes nor go but it stays with the emotion of love...

©chitraveena

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Become more aware of your feelings❤��

Our feelings and emotions are our spontaneous reactions to our life experiences and can provide useful information and feedback about ourselves and our place in the world.
Not everyone likes tuning into or thinking about their feelings, but it is a useful exercise because it tells you what you like and dislike, what makes you happy, sad, uncomfortable, anxious, and so on.

One thing you can do to try to be more aware of how you feel is to reflect on the physical manifestations of emotions. For example:

The feeling of butterflies in your stomach might signal nervousness or anxiety.

A heated feeling in your face might indicate embarrassment or anger.

Clenching your teeth or jaw might be a sign that you're upset, frustrated, or angry.
©ashart
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Become more aware of your feelings❤

Our feelings and emotions are our spontaneous reactions to our life experiences and can provide useful information and feedback about ourselves and our place in the world.
Not everyone likes tuning into or thinking about their feelings, but it is a useful exercise because it tells you what you like and dislike, what makes you happy, sad, uncomfortable, anxious, and so on.

One thing you can do to try to be more aware of how you feel is to reflect on the physical manifestations of emotions. For example:

The feeling of butterflies in your stomach might signal nervousness or anxiety.

A heated feeling in your face might indicate embarrassment or anger.

Clenching your teeth or jaw might be a sign that you're upset, frustrated, or angry.
©ashart

ashart 1w

Communicate and flirt��❤��

OK, now you're out and you know the score, so what happens? Now you have to get familiar with the oldest dating habit: communication. Indeed, should you be surrounded by twenty eligible bachelors every day of the week.

if you don't attempt to make conversation with any of them, your dating life will just stand still.

Get rid of your shyness and apprehensions and start talking. It's not as difficult as it seems and will go easier and easier over time.

Introduce yourself. Ask questions. Enquire about the person's activities, hobbies...and so on.
Parties are the perfect place to communicate with strangers as you both know the host and can talk about how you came to know him/her as well as your own paths in life.

If flirting makes you uneasy, persuade yourself you're not looking for a love interest, but simply, a new acquaintance- then see where it leads you to! Otherwise, if you feel attracted by the person, let it show!

Use some simple, friendly signals: smile, make eye contact, laugh at his/her jokes (but do it genuinely), express your interest...Then, when you get to know the person better.

you may employ physical contact: kiss him/her on the cheek when you part, or gently shake hands, pat him/her on the arm or the shoulder to make a point...Don't be too invading though: some people are touchy, specially with strangers!

Verbal flirting will come naturally to you if you're attracted, and specially if you feel the feeling is mutual! Just keep this attraction in the back of your head: it will come out, in subtle touches, in the course of your conversation. Again, don't make too blunt statements if you're unsure of the person-or of yourself!
©ashart
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Communicate and flirt❤

OK, now you're out and you know the score, so what happens? Now you have to get familiar with the oldest dating habit: communication. Indeed, should you be surrounded by twenty eligible bachelors every day of the week.

if you don't attempt to make conversation with any of them, your dating life will just stand still.

Get rid of your shyness and apprehensions and start talking. It's not as difficult as it seems and will go easier and easier over time.

Introduce yourself. Ask questions. Enquire about the person's activities, hobbies...and so on.
Parties are the perfect place to communicate with strangers as you both know the host and can talk about how you came to know him/her as well as your own paths in life.

If flirting makes you uneasy, persuade yourself you're not looking for a love interest, but simply, a new acquaintance- then see where it leads you to! Otherwise, if you feel attracted by the person, let it show!

Use some simple, friendly signals: smile, make eye contact, laugh at his/her jokes (but do it genuinely), express your interest...Then, when you get to know the person better.

you may employ physical contact: kiss him/her on the cheek when you part, or gently shake hands, pat him/her on the arm or the shoulder to make a point...Don't be too invading though: some people are touchy, specially with strangers!

Verbal flirting will come naturally to you if you're attracted, and specially if you feel the feeling is mutual! Just keep this attraction in the back of your head: it will come out, in subtle touches, in the course of your conversation. Again, don't make too blunt statements if you're unsure of the person-or of yourself!
©ashart

hanibletheone 1w

#thehanibles #mirakee #TheBottomLine #problem #talk #bush #line #SitDown

The Bottom Line

What is
The Bottom Line?
Don't beat around bush
What is
The real problem?
Come sit down
I think it's time to talk
How do you really feel?
Do you want me or not?
Is
The Bottom Line
©hanibletheone

ashart 1w

Understand what authenticity means��

Psychologists define authenticity as manifestation of a person's true self in their everyday lives. Basically, it means that your core self is reflected in what you believe, say, and do everyday.

People who are real accept themselves and all of their strengths as well as their weaknesses. They behave in ways that align with their values and avoid behaviors that do not fit neatly with their values.
At its core, authenticity is about being real and genuine.

The first step to being real begins when you actively decide to be genuine. This has to be a conscious decision.

You will also have to commit to acting in accordance with who you are even though sometimes this will be challenging and you will feel vulnerable.

Realness may require you to do things that will be unpopular with other people. You may also have to acknowledge aspects of yourself that are less favorable, but this is important because acknowledging what you value or do not value about yourself leads you to live an open and honest -- and more real -- life.

Being real has benefits for your mental health. Research has shown that authentic people feel better about themselves and are more likely to show resilience in the face of personal challenges and less likely to engage in self-destructive coping mechanisms like alcohol abuse or other risky behavior.

Authentic people also tend to demonstrate more purpose in their choices and are more goal-directed and committed to seeing things through to success.
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Understand what authenticity means

Psychologists define authenticity as manifestation of a person's true self in their everyday lives. Basically, it means that your core self is reflected in what you believe, say, and do everyday.

People who are real accept themselves and all of their strengths as well as their weaknesses. They behave in ways that align with their values and avoid behaviors that do not fit neatly with their values.
At its core, authenticity is about being real and genuine.

The first step to being real begins when you actively decide to be genuine. This has to be a conscious decision.

You will also have to commit to acting in accordance with who you are even though sometimes this will be challenging and you will feel vulnerable.

Realness may require you to do things that will be unpopular with other people. You may also have to acknowledge aspects of yourself that are less favorable, but this is important because acknowledging what you value or do not value about yourself leads you to live an open and honest -- and more real -- life.

Being real has benefits for your mental health. Research has shown that authentic people feel better about themselves and are more likely to show resilience in the face of personal challenges and less likely to engage in self-destructive coping mechanisms like alcohol abuse or other risky behavior.

Authentic people also tend to demonstrate more purpose in their choices and are more goal-directed and committed to seeing things through to success.
©ashart

ashart 1w

Don't put yourself down❤��

Society can be hard on single people. If most of the people you know are in relationships, you may wonder if the problem is you, but don't.

As long as you're decently clean, reasonably nice and not inapproachable, there's no reason you couldn't have a love life of your own.

Remember that love and dating are mostly made of chance encounters, even on the dating websites.

Get rid of all the self-deprecatory thinking and talking: once you put yourself down, others are likely to do so as well. Dismiss all negative comments on your single status, either from your acquaintances or from yourself.

For instance, if you're self-conscious about your appearance, keep in mind this is roughly everybody's case.

Try to describe yourself objectively or ask a trustworthy friend to do so. You'll find out you have beautiful traits, just like everyone else.

If you still can't get over the idea that lovable people must be perfect and you're not, visualize the persons you know who are in a happy relationship right now, or the couples you see walking down the street.

Are they all gorgeous looking, or incredibly brainy? Chance is, they're as imperfect as you-and maybe more so !
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Don't put yourself down❤

Society can be hard on single people. If most of the people you know are in relationships, you may wonder if the problem is you, but don't.

As long as you're decently clean, reasonably nice and not inapproachable, there's no reason you couldn't have a love life of your own.

Remember that love and dating are mostly made of chance encounters, even on the dating websites.

Get rid of all the self-deprecatory thinking and talking: once you put yourself down, others are likely to do so as well. Dismiss all negative comments on your single status, either from your acquaintances or from yourself.

For instance, if you're self-conscious about your appearance, keep in mind this is roughly everybody's case.

Try to describe yourself objectively or ask a trustworthy friend to do so. You'll find out you have beautiful traits, just like everyone else.

If you still can't get over the idea that lovable people must be perfect and you're not, visualize the persons you know who are in a happy relationship right now, or the couples you see walking down the street.

Are they all gorgeous looking, or incredibly brainy? Chance is, they're as imperfect as you-and maybe more so !
©ashart

ashart 1w

Know what you want and don't want❤��

Expectations vary with people. Before entering the dating scene, you have to determine what you're looking for there.

Do you want a serious relationship, or just a casual one? Would you be okay with having a friend with benefits, or one night stands?

In short, you should check what a "great love life" is in your opinion. It will help when you actually meet people.

For instance, dating a casual person could be considered as a loss of time if you're looking for a committed relationship. If you're not, it could be a lot of fun!

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Know what you want and don't want❤

Expectations vary with people. Before entering the dating scene, you have to determine what you're looking for there.

Do you want a serious relationship, or just a casual one? Would you be okay with having a friend with benefits, or one night stands?

In short, you should check what a "great love life" is in your opinion. It will help when you actually meet people.

For instance, dating a casual person could be considered as a loss of time if you're looking for a committed relationship. If you're not, it could be a lot of fun!
©ashart