Stop Being Afraid to Approach Women
Why are men afraid to approach women? The reasons why some men are afraid to approach women is because of their low self-esteem. Some men feel that they are not worth it, and they do not value themselves. They would feel lonely and think that women are more valuable than them. A lot of men are afraid of getting rejected by women, and it is another reason why some men come on too strong to that one particular female.
I used to always wonder why some men would be so afraid to approach women but when I got an expert opinion of my dating coach. That was a wake up call to me, and made me really think.
Being afraid to approach a woman is a sucker move. You do not believe in yourself that you can pull any woman.
Why are men afraid to talk to more than one female? And why are they're afraid of rejection?
Before this pandemic started in the spring, when it was starting to get nice outside. We still had to wear our jackets. I was walking down Wabash street downtown, observing some artwork displayed outside a gallery. As I was walking looking at those elegant artworks of flowers and realistic paintings of celebrities. I turned my head to make sure I did not bump into anyone because when I get drawn to something I attract sometimes, I would lose focus on what is going on around me, and that is not good. We have to always watch out for our surroundings in public. When I was making sure no one was around me, there were this Hispanic man that was walking on the side of me waving his hand trying to get my attention. I looked, and he had a big smile on his face.
"I like your outfit, " the man said. The Hispanic man was wearing all black, tall sized and slime, and had his hair slicked back. He had on a biking jacket. I assumed he rides a motorcycle. He looked like he was around my age but a little older. I am 25, and he looked like he was at least 27 or 28. He spoke fluent English.
"You are so beautiful, you single?" he asked.
"Thank you, but I already have a boyfriend," I said.
"Does he treat you right?" He asked.
"He treat me just fine, " said.
"Your outfit is really beautiful, I never seen a woman that dress like you, " he said. I was wearing a yellow and green outfit. As you all can tell from my profile picture on this app, that I like to match and wear bright clothing.
"Thanks, but I'm not interested, " I said.
"I see you are into art, " he said.
"Yeah imma artist, " I said.
"You have some of your work on you?" He asked.
"No I don't, " I said.
"Where you Headed?" He asked.
"To school, you know I'm not the only female around here you can talk to, it's a lot of Mexican girls around here, " I informed.
"They not my type, " he said.
"You don't like yo own race?" I asked.
"No, " he nodded.
"Why?" I asked.
"I don't like how Latinas shape, " he said.
"Why? I seen a lot of hot Mexican women out here, " I said.
"I don't like how Latina women shape, they don't shape like you black women, " he said.
"Really?" I said.
"Yeah, so can I take you out sometimes? I can make you more happier?" He asked.
"No, I'm not interested, " I said. After I said that, I walked off.
It was a lot of things I had done wrong in that situation. I should of never continued to converse with him. That is because if a woman tells a man that she is not interested, that should just be it. That woman should walk away. I learned that if a woman stays and keeps talking to the guy that approached her. That man would think you are interested in him. I learned so much from that mistake. Now, if a man approaches me, I am not afraid to say I am not interested and walk away. It does not make sense to chat with the man if I am not interested.
That man that approached me, he was afraid of getting rejected. That is because after I first told him I have a boyfriend, he wanted to get desperate not taking no for an answer. It is not good for a man to get caught up in chasing that one woman. If that woman says she is not interested, then you should move on to the next hot chick. There are 50,000 more women out there you can have. We all are going to get rejected in our lives. That is life. Men should not be afraid of getting rejected. Leave that girl alone that does not want to be bothered. You are worth more than that woman you are chasing. That is what beta males does, chase women.
Do not listen to what they say on social media because it is a lie. Do no not listen to what society says because it is a lie. If you see women more valuable than you are, you are going to be afraid to approach them. Do not get caught up in the hype. Do not make women a priority. Keep focusing on your purpose in life.