To all the Broken ones this Valentine,
Social medias have been a major problem in laying out the false realities of a relationship. Especially when you break up, social apps make you even more sad and depressing due to the content and drift you away from the actualities!
But let's not bend towards the fact that social media is on the pinnacle. We, of all have been evolving all around and we act that after breaking up that there is nothing much left over in the world for us. We don't care about what love is, we just show that how sad we are, how depressed we are. We want people to know that what we are going through which is a bad phase. We remove our profile pictures, update useless status and the last of all things, we put up stories on our profile in which we may target our other partner in some way or another, or we try to make them realise that our life is going better than them after the break-up.
Yes, sometimes love becomes special after you have spent a good amount of time together. Breaking after couple of years into a relationship is really hard, because from the next day we have to start pretending that you don't know anything about that person of whom you know everything.
Love does happen twice. There's nothing wrong to get feelings for someone else after a relationship. You all have different feelings for every different person you are friends with then why can't you feel for someone else?
People will talk about you when you keep getting into relationships but it's fine. Being into a relationship is more than an experience. You just don't get into a relationship, you grow in it, as an overall person. Don't regret over a break-up. Keep moving forward in life. I remember a saying from one of my favourite movies,
"If you think of so many options before choosing a perfect chair, then why can't we have so many options before choosing a perfect life partner?"
Feel happy about the break-up. You can finally eat what you love and not what your partner loves. You can roam freely, you can listen to your favourites, binge watch your favourite series, you feel free, you don't need to call and give your status update about you are doing.
Here's a thing, depression will make you realise your mistake even though you not wrong. I know, it's hard to move on after such a beautiful phase of life but remember, even sine wave has to move from its positive value to negative value to keep going. Keep going and keep smiling, there are many phases of life you still have to steer clear.