When everyone is saying, 'Reach out to others, It's okay to share your sorrows with others, it's okay to cry on someone's shoulders',
Why we are not saying, 'Once in a while we should check on others, sometimes we should ask others how they are doing, instead of checking on someone just when we need them, why can't we check if they need anything if they are not comfortable to directly ask us?'
And aren't we are the one who always tries to get out of these situations when someone tries to share their grief with us?
We need to stop sharing our opinion and judgments on each and everything. It's not correct to decide about someone else's decision just because we have the means for it. We must use these means to stay connected with others and for supporting others.