Loudness and intensity are not the same.People want to 'know' about you and not 'understand' you. They want to 'hear' from you but not 'listen' to you. If you don't share, they ask - 'Why are you so quiet?'. And when you talk, they filter out your words and hear only what they want to, not what you really mean. You share your pain, they tell you where you went wrong and how you need to be strong. They don't trace the roots.
People look for privileges but shun away the responsibilities. On knowing a song,they feel they know your ryhtm. Maybe the depth scares them, they want to stay in their placid pools. Your ocean is not for them, dear.