People who's emotions damage others are the ones who "expect" from another as if they lack meeting their needs when their harvest was the result of their seed. You can't sow apple seeds expecting a watermelon. Seeds produce after its own kind. Your position of wanting your needs met is a result of the wrong seeds you sowed. Don't be bitter over the wrong seeds you sowed making him/her accountable for what you're responsible to do. You are 100 responsible for your life.