You know what's pure?
When you are not even sure if you love that person, but you want to lay down next to that person silently, no sex no touches. You just want to listen to them, look into their eyes,stare into their bare soul. Laugh and cry with that person. Share your traumas and memories with them, both good and bad. Hold their hands, feel their warmth. Share a blanket, get cozy and slowly fall asleep while holding them in your arms.