We find most of the people living in extended families have endless arguments and sometimes I wondered what is the main problem?
I figured out that the moment Contribution and Participation are neglected, then happiness is taken away from that family and anger and stress takes over.
What is Contribution and Participation ?
Contribution: This is where each of the family members contribute in fulfilling the family basic needs. Each member plays a role in the family chores, financial expenses and upbringing of the offsprings.
Participation: This is where each of the family members offers any type of service willingly out of love and to build the relationship. This excludes basic needs. It's based only on secondary needs.
For example : Bringing a pizza at home for everyone to eat. Taking the family to a short trip. Giving the family gifts.
The main aim is to: Build love amongst the family members and show unity and brotherhood.