I’ve learned that even our self deprivations has a purpose. And that purpose is far beyond the gains of this life. Our patience, on our sufferings in this duniya, will beg to Allah to enrich us in them on the day of judgement. So, bearing a loss of this temporary life is nothing infront of the traumas of the next, the eternal life. But the reward on patiently bearing our suffering is far bigger and even more beautiful than the luxuries of this life.
And a believer never argues on the plannings of divine.
This is how I shift my perspective on my loss.