Destiny Vs. Free Will
Destiny manifests itself when we act in accordance with our thoughts. Our thought is the tool of destiny's play. So when we watch our thoughts (especially the negative ones) and don't comply with them, we create the possibility of accessing free will.
When someone hurts us and we react by hurting back, we let destiny play through us. But when we choose our highest thought and forgive the person, we start accessing free will, a much more fruitful way of living.
<3 Kamlesh Acharya