• dexterlight 5w

    It was never an issue until you let people's nonsense opinion that being single makes you less of a person.

    There's really nothing wrong for being single. It doesn't make you less beautiful than those who are in a relationship. It doesn't make you less lovable than anyone. It doesn't make you less privileged than anyone. It has nothing to do with your value as a person. It has nothing to do on how you should be treated.

    Being single may be some kind of joke for some to laugh about but it's just perfectly fine to be single.

    Perhaps, you are single because you've been hurt before and you are not yet ready to take the risk of loving again. Or maybe you were the one who inflicted so much pain for someone and guilt has been visiting you since then.

    Perhaps, you are single because you've been fooled before and it's kind of hard for you to trust people now. Or maybe you were the one who cheated on someone and realized soon after that you were wrong.

    Perhaps, you are single because you're lost-wandering in the paradise of past memories. Or maybe you were the one who left someone alone in darkness-yet still wondering about what-if's.

    Perhaps, you are single because you're still in the process of moving on. Or maybe you were the one who broke someone into pieces and yet ended up musing about what-could-have-been's.

    Perhaps, you are single because you're still holding on a promise that has long been broken. Or maybe you were the one who has broken the promise but you regretted how it has been fulfilled by someone else, wishing it was you.

    Perhaps, you are single because you are still stranded in between the old conversations of promises and lies, of I-love-you's and I'm-sorry's, and Hello's and Goodbye, trying to figure out what went wrong. Or maybe you were the one who deserted someone in the middle of nowhere where there is no sense of resolution but unfortunately you lost your way out, too.

    Perhaps, you are single because you're still in the process of regaining your worth that was once denied to you. Or maybe you were the one who insensitively and heartlessly made someone feel unworthy and undeserving but that's exactly who you turned out to be.

    Perhaps, you are single because you're still waiting for the same person who broke you. Or maybe you were the one someone has been waiting but you've got no guts to make up for your mistakes.

    Perhaps, you are single because you chose to break someone's heart for a love you know you will never have. Or maybe it's because you don't see love as something to be learnt but a special feeling that comes naturally.

    Perhaps, you are single because you'd rather give up the love you are dying to have than to sacrifice your faith.

    Perhaps, you are single because you fear rejection.

    Perhaps, you are single because your parents are strict.

    Perhaps, you are single because you've chosen to be right than to be in love.

    Perhaps, you are single because you are focused with your studies.

    Perhaps, you are single because there are things you value more than love.

    Yes. There are a lot of reasons and possibilities that many failed to see because these reasons are often made invisible and unknown.

    Remember, you are not single for nothing; you are single for a reason. And that reason is not for forever. Don't be in a hurry. The perfect time will come. Let them talk. Nothing matters more than the truth behind people's judgment and assumed reality of your being single. Be proud!

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