Are others sense of perception.
Why should it matter when they throw it at you.
Coz' its their perception based on situations they visualised , cannot be accepted as a reality.
Coz' what you are aware of, is what you are living.
So than why to let other people's alligations based on their perception distant you from current situation and distract you from Self Realisation
When you are already aware about your True Mental Condition.