It is never about what we 'want' or 'ask for' in our lives;
life doesn't function that way.
It is all about what we are given in our lives and how we cherish each and every moment of ours with the things provided to us;
because these 'things' provided to us in our lives are an extremely rare blend of possibilities, probabilities and peculiarities! Too precious to be cast aside.
Live and enjoy while you still can.
Cherish people while you still have them.