Some people are SO MANIPULATIVE
That they would ask you for advice
ONLY so they can hold you ACCOUNTABLE
For the outcome, and then keep
Manipulating you for further desires outcomes.
Like for ex. they would ask advice for something
If it goes right, they would use it to
Ask you to do the next step, then the next step
And in the process make you do all the steps.
And if it goes wrong they would say
"BUT you told me to do this.."
AND immediately make YOU RESPONSIBLE
For the failure of the plan, and subsequently
finding a new way to make things work.
At any point, If you refuse to be manipulated further..
These people are liable to accuse you of
wasting their Time among other things.
I have ACTUALLY come across MANY such people
And because I am a good person
I have even been manipulated for sometime
BEFORE I REALISED their game and their TOXIC ENERGETICALLY ABUSIVE PERSONA.
That's why I document these experiences
To help others recognise the Energetically Abusive
People in their life
Next time someone says
'you advised me to do this..'
You must ask them in turn
'BUT Who asked you to ask me for advice..'
Someone tries to manipulate you with
How much they depend upon you
You must remind them, that NO ONE
ASKED FOR THEIR DEPENDENCE.
Keep your eyes and ears open
Stay mindful /thoughtful towards others
BUT DO NOT be manipulated in any case.
Call the Energy Vampires in your life out .
Remember, they won't stop, unless you stop them.
It takes one Enlightened person to end their MANIPULATION.
—Manipulation is a game, you can't play twice.