loverenay@saimkhan107 I'm so sorry, sweety...It sounds like your dad and my dad should be friends. My dad doesn't even think before he says these things and then after he says them, he makes a joke to lighten things up. My father is an engineer and an extremely intelligent man. It's always been very hard to live up to his expectations. Even now that I'm older, he still lectures me every chance he gets and puts me down without realizing it. Father's can be tough. My mother always worried about what would happen to our relationship after she passed, since she was the glue holding us together, because we've always bumped heads. I try to have a relationship with him, but it would be a much better relationship if he would stop saying the things he says. I still love him dearly and he loves me dearly also, as I'm sure you and your father love each other dearly. I do hope things get better for you, Saim.
saimkhan107@loverenay they are ma'am. Slowly but they are. The thing is they do care the most for us. They're just too proud and arrogant to show it.
loverenay@saimkhan107 Yes, they do love us. I just wish my father would think more before he does things and put me first because I'm his only child. I'm very glad to hear things between you and your father are getting better, even if you're both getting there slowly.