Paul Johansson once wrote "Unburden yourself from the mistakes of your past, and when you do your heart grows stronger. It doesn't mean what you've done is forgotten."
What you've done is out there.
What you've done remembers.
Bitterness is easy,
Hatred is easy.
But forgiveness, that's a tough one.
Forgive me only if you can, but if you can't, then let it be.
What I've done is who I am, but what I've done is not who I'll be.