You want God? You want true love? It's found in self improvement and individuality. All that drama that you do, calling each other your God when in love is beautiful, cute and innocent but far from truth. It's impossible to experience that true Godly love without being authentic and individualistic at the core. Though it's okay to love like the usual people do afterall life is hard and the world selfish. You need a support. But being on your own can take you places love cannot.