• arimaa 6w

    Be kind, don't be a fool

    Yes, you don't have anything to just keep suspecting people. Agreed
    But, the same way you don't have a reason to trust them either.

    Be kind, don't be a fool

    You can be a kind-hearted person and still not feel guilty about saying "NO" or thinking about yourself first.

    It's not being selfish it's more like self-care

    The mantra of your life should always be "ME BEFORE YOU"

    A blind person can not be a guide to anyone.
    Heal yourself before you selflessly offer help to others
    Start of a healthy you starts with "HEAL-THY-YOU"

    You have done enough for people who don't care about you or your health
    You have let them use you enough
    You have drained yourself enough so that others feel ok
    You are the only who will be with yourself for the rest of your life.
    You were born alone and probably will die alone

    There comes a point when your parents have to leave you or you have to leave them. And that's how everything goes. Accept that.

    "ACCEPTANCE IS THE KEY FOR A HAPPY LIFE"
    and if not a happy life you won't be sad about thinks for long.

    Adam and eve were sent to this place as a punishment. And yet here we are searching for happiness, really??. Would you do the same thing if you were thrown in a prison? And rest of your generations will be in prison too???

    But does that mean the prisoners are tortured every second of every minute in the prison, does it?

    Learn to balance out things. Whatever happened, has happened in the past. MAKE PEACE WITH IT.

    You can't change it, or the future. Why stress over it?

    I read a phrase that said-
    "WE WORRY ABOUT TOMORROW AS IF IT IS PROMISED"
    That hit me hard

    What if I die after writing this?
    Or
    Do you die while reading this?

    What's the use of the baggage that we are carrying?
    In fact most of the time they are the reason for our sadness, depression or frustration.
    And the worst part is we know that yet somehow we are trapped into it.

    Stop
    Wait
    Think
    Analysis
    Only and only then
    Act

    You were created for a reason. Don't let just anybody tell you your worth.

    Be kind, but don't take shit.

    ©arimaa