Sometimes I feel like a second place boyfriend. Thomas penned in his man journal. He was first place at everything else. He was like a second place boyfriend to six friends, but he wasn’t involved in any unhealthy emotional entanglements. He slept well. He laughed. He created. He was single for a LONG time now. He created his own job and was entering his 10th year. Stop comparing your inside feelings to others outside activities, Sailor Bob said. His Honda smelled like the sea.