If you love somebody, you don't have to lose yourself. If you love somebody, you don't have to make yourself feel like shit. You don't have to practice nepotism, you don't have to think before you do.
If you love somebody, it isn't necessary for them to love you back but you don't drown yourself in them, you deserve yourself. You reclaim your soul. You-fy more.
You're not meant to be trapped in the loop of loving and unloving. You don't be fragile, you don't tear yourself apart, your heart is not meant to be broken by others, it's yours and cherish it. Only you can nourish it.