• rahirayees 11w

    The story is about a marriage proposal,...now without ruining a second let me commence it.... well, she was just amazing in every aspect, sagaciousness n beautiful face akin to an icing layer on a birthday cake, she was persuing masters when she decided to go for civil Services, meantime her aspiration was also to seek Ph.d. in preffered field as she had already got succeded in her pursuit(JRF Qualified).  After her masters she got a reputed post in a govt deptt. But still her ambition was unflinching....
       It was a sunny day when she was apprised that a guy is coming to see her, inorder to marry her, she got stunned because her choice wasn't been asked whether she really wants to  go in this sacroscnt wedlock.... she awaited for awhile then decided to see the guy....The guy, showed up n dressed up, the impression was like an informal, wearing formals(motive, not to defame, but to make a clear image). Greeted well, n sat after few moments the prospective bride enter the spacious room, her appearance was sparkling, seems flash of light in a gloomy room, a twinkling star in dark sky....
       She gave the guy brewed coffee n the aroma evoked compliments from every one around...
        She was asked what else she knows, n thereof, revealed several secrets that she can cook certain dishes that even outshine the  professional cheffs+ she knows sewing n tailoring+ few foreign languages +her mom from the left corner articulated that her passion for  seeking religious knowledge is also unhampered...
      Now the guy was being asked by the Girl that what's his academic qualification n the source of income, he said with pride that he had appeared in sophomore exams but haplessly his efforts didn't yield any result hence he decided to quit. When inquired further about her profession life, he said that he is a daily wager n gets remuneration for the work done thence he was confronted with few more questions, to which the follow-ups were grim.
    But still girl nodded in affirmative to the proposal cos the orthodox people won't let her to exercise her right to dissent, she is pre-suppossed to comply, like placid cow leashed with stake n wait for owner to bring her fodder.
    The guy asked the girl that she has to leave her job as her future in-laws won't allow her, the condition eventhough against her volition but she also acceded to that with a statement that she won't leave the job till he(guy) gets adjusted at some deptt. Or get a job somewhere so that they won't be smitten by the consequences... futher more the guy demanded a 4 wheeler, the girl's parents being humble n sober also acknowledged the claim but the girl felt ired, resisted, the guy after witnessing resilience from the bride(prospective) stood up n echoed that he won't marry with the girl who ain't have etiquettes ... n left the place leaving every one in dejection, subsequently the girl was rebuked even her siblings used vile language against her...
    But it was the ist time since her birth when she felt enchanted after facing rejection...
    The reason of posting is that...
    Why girls can't show dissent or disapproval at any such above ocassions?? Why she has always to concord with terms??
    Even in a sophisticated world, why she can't exercise her rights n is obliged to render her duties like a slave??
    Even being well off n qualified why she is subject to approval from people who even don't have independent existence...?
    Why parents concede to demands, is girl a burden???
    The sequel of questions isn't exhaustive....

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