Which i should and people like me should stop doing is
First, stop thinking about others always.
Second, stop thinking what others think about you and your words.
Third, stop being responsible for others mood swings or depression.
Fourth, stop being a jerk or a puppet or a joker around.
Fifth, stop being emotional for others all the time.
Sixth, stop caring about others feelings too much.
Seventh, stop changing your self for others satisfaction and happines.
Eight, stop depending on others for your happiness.
Try to invoke these to that extent where you are happy first and you are like a human being and not a bitch.
Try to be just a human + not a human because being a human breaks you mentally completely.