Hazrat Ali said;
If you remember someone during your pain ,remember he /she loves you and if you remember someone during your happiness remember you love him /her
This problem is with everyone
And also one similarity regarding this ,is in everyone i.e everyone remember same one during their pain...
May you guess whom .?
ITx our beloved Allah....because we know that in distrastful situation only He can take out us from that and we also know that He is only one Who loves us more than every one.
So turn to Allah as soon as possible