You'll never hear someone say that they flew in love or that they glided into it. No, it's always been, "I fell in love.", "I'm falling in love.", or "I've fallen in love." Why? Because just like a fall, you have no control over where love takes you. If you flew or glided into love, things would be so much simpler, wouldn't it? You wouldn't have heartbreaks and one - sided loves. However, in reality, we fall into a deep, scary pit. We have no control, whatsoever. It's like a rollercoaster, really. You go up and up and up and then you go down really, really fast. The up process is the easy part. The summer fling, the small crush, or just a general liking towards someone. However, there comes a point and time when that "general liking" becomes more, and not everyone notices at first. This part is the drop of the rollercoaster. Depending on the person, they could potentially be on the drop part for as long as years or perhaps forever! Others, eventually get off of the rollercoaster. Like rollercoasters, falling can be exciting and terrifying at the same time. All we can do is wait and anticipate what happens next.